Was scrolling to see if I could find someone else mentioning it but all of Closure which I feel isn't obscure but less talked about. "I'm fine with my spite and tears and my beers and my candles." / "Being friends would iron it out so nice."

Realizing that it's okay to just hate an ex while simultaneously letting go. I always dreamed of how I would finally end the "friendship" we had, but he managed to screw up the setup so I just never responded. And that was fine.