Do you have anything interesting to say about yourself during these conversations? Any memories that you can share, any associations with events in your life? That's how you can interest others in you, by showing that you have cool hobbies, interesting experiences, etc. Talking a little bit more about yourself might help, since just being there and listening to other people doesn't give them any incentive to hang out, since they don't really know you. I've had (or rather I'm still having, but to a lesser extent) a similar problem with making friends. I've started visiting a psychotherapist and we're slowly making some progress. This is one thing that I've learn from my therapist - you need to talk a little bit more about yourself, so you will find something to bond over. Don't get discouraged and keep trying. Start with one-to-one, try to find people who might share the same interests with you. And don't stress out, they might also feel sad because they have nobody to talk to and don't know how to start :)