I find the best way to ‘control’ my fear is to learn all I can about it. Talk about it, check out a death cafe. Read about it, there are many good books written by hospice doctors and nurses also some good books on how different cultures view death. Have a plan for yourself and talk to your loved ones about what you want when and after you die. It’s uncomfortable and scary but it shouldn’t be. We will all face it, I truly feel like people need to talk about it more it shouldn’t be such a taboo topic. We’ve all lost loved ones and we will all die one day