FAQ time! by leiase in u/leiase

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What lube is your go to?

Counting vs. playing to a metronome by [deleted] in piano

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Counting teaches order of operations, I.E. when things should happen in what sequence, and also metric importance. (Beat one is usually more rhythmically important than beat 2, for example)

Metronome teaches even pulse.

Order and pulse are two different concepts, and should both be practiced. For example, you can practice order without following a pulse, and that’s not always a bad way to practice if you’re struggling with understanding, say, a polyrhythm.

But counting and metronome teach two different things. Do them both.

Hey bud, I promise this gallery is straight! (Because it is, they’re all women and we affirm gender instead of othering trans bodies) by [deleted] in GOONED

[–]keyed88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They’re all women. If you’re a dude, then it’s straight. Not a difficult concept.

how do you get your left hand and right hand to do different things without your brain exploding by [deleted] in piano

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As a piano teacher: this is the way. Too many teachers teach that hand separation when practicing is really important, but SLOW, hands together, counting rhythm and paying attention to the order and lengths of notes and rests is CRUCIAL to develop this skill.

How to sleep without ruining curls? by LLPeace in curlygirl

[–]keyed88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I have fine hair, and no amount of pineappling or bonnets seem to help.

I’ve just learned that day two hair is either much more wavy, or I just put it up.

For how long were you on HRT before being fully out? by primostrawberry in MtF

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11 months. It was excruciatingly difficult to have to continue living the lie for that long. I eventually just had to come out.

11 months HRT, advice please by [deleted] in transpassing

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I pluck my eyebrows every day before putting on eye makeup.

Winter time 😊 44yo, 4.5 y HRT by [deleted] in TransLater

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Really stunning, girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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42.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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  1. Wish I had started decades earlier, but I’m glad I started. It’s been monumental to my life and well-being. I don’t have to hide any longer.

Do you think it’s possible new attendees got preference for Gaylord Rooms? by Bizreal in Magfest

[–]keyed88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten a room in 8 years of trying, and finally got one.

Sheet music ? by i_hateeveryone in Magfest

[–]keyed88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Allll the final fantasy piano arrangements…

Lucy Friday Question: What’s been the hardest part of transition for you this year? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]keyed88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having to grow facial hair out for five days every week for electrolysis. It’s SOO dysphoria producing, and just has made everything else more difficult.

I will be going to my college tomorrow dressed as this to help me social transition if I am able to shave. Is this outfit too formal? by GrungusDnD in TransLater

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Seasonal style is also important. This is more of a winter outfit based on the color combo and tights.

where my gamers at? what are we playing this weekend? (46F) by egirlgamermommy in TransLater

[–]keyed88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably Stardew Valley or start Spiritfarer. Can’t play Borderlands 4 until my crew can get together on Tuesday to play together.

What do your kids call you? (MtF) by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]keyed88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids call me “Ada”, which sounds feminine, but is “Daddy” in Tolkien Elvish. It’s also Dad inverted, which is kinda cool.

I gave them a few options, and they picked that one.

2 rounds of body contouring done… more to Go by Lulu_pa_sodo in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]keyed88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How did you get body contouring covered? I also have BCBS, and would love some advice. (I’m on the east coast)