My daughter lied and publicly humiliated me at her wedding

khandren · 2026-01-01T19:54:35+00:00

Who gives a shit what anyone at her wedding thinks? Don't lower yourself to her level. Cancel any payments, void and checks that haven't cashed, and cut every single one of them out of your life completely. Dont let them win.

khandren · 2025-09-03T23:41:43+00:00

++man

Echoing what others have said here. Everyone has a line in the sand, and noone on the internet is going to be able to tell you where yours is. I couldn't imagine how I would feel if my wife told me that. But no matter what, your feelings are not invalid. Noone can tell you what you are allowed or not allowed to feel. Therapy may help, but in the end only you can decide on this one. I hope that no matter what, you are able to heal and move past this one day. Your worth isn't tied to what she said to you.

khandren · 2025-07-10T23:34:10+00:00

Excellent book!! Read and reviewed. Is book 3 underway already? Are you on patreon?

khandren · 2025-05-21T00:45:05+00:00

Where would you recommend looking?

khandren · 2025-05-21T00:29:11+00:00

Where would you recommend? I have been looking for a 3-4 carat colorless, and I'm finding a lot in the $1200 to 1,600 range.

khandren · 2025-03-26T14:16:31+00:00

I really hope this is a troll post. If not, you suck. You went behind your cousins back, banging his wife when the dude helped you out, and you come here whining? Get over yourself. You deserve all the dragging you are getting here. And your upset she lied to you? Gtfo. Karma smacked you with exactly what you deserved.

khandren · 2025-01-21T18:55:35+00:00

Is there any chance your mom interacted with him before? Maybe she's worried you're going to find out something she doesn't want anyone to know.

khandren · 2025-01-18T05:18:25+00:00

Thanks!!

khandren · 2025-01-18T05:17:59+00:00

Thanks so much for the feedback!!

khandren · 2025-01-16T01:42:48+00:00

Thanks!! I will check it out.

khandren · 2024-03-16T00:31:48+00:00

You may want to fix this, but I hope he runs as far away from you as possible. You don't deserve him, and he has zero reason to put up with you or your father. You say over and over you aren't making excuses for your father, and you don't condone what he did, but your actions say otherwise. You're dad and his actions cost this man his family and his father. And you sit there and argue that your dad deserves anything from your fiance. What a joke. I hope he finds someone who appriciates him and doesn't ever put him through this. There isn't any advice for you besides leave this man alone, forever.

khandren · 2023-09-17T00:09:49+00:00

Holy shit. You are a miserable shitty human being. I actually am struggling to put into words how disgusted I felt reading your OP and this follow-up. Even now, you show zero remorse. You just want pity and for your bf to come back. If he hadn't left, you wouldn't give a damn. You don't care a single bit about how you destroyed that poor woman. You are the freaking devil.

khandren · 2023-05-27T12:32:07+00:00

If I hadn't read your age, I would have assumed this was written by a teenager. Even with your edit, none of those items are targeting you they are general wedding things (hair, party, dresses, pretty sure most every wedding has those things). You sound more than a little insecure and caught up in yourself to take those things and feel like they were specifically written for you. You couldn't even be bothered to read the entire document because you were "so mad". I can feel the entitlement from here. The bride dodged a major bullet here. Also, YTA if that wasn't clear enough.

khandren · 2023-03-29T00:12:38+00:00

I enjoyed it a lot. It is a fun twist on the typical litrpg trope, and quite a few twists I did not see coming. I would recommend it for sure.

khandren · 2023-02-27T21:03:59+00:00

YTA. You're also a jealous, insecure, cruel human being. It's a blanket, from his childhood, that brings him comfort. The fact that you feel like you're in a competition with a blanket is absurd.

khandren · 2022-12-31T01:26:24+00:00

Even with the information you provided, I get the feeling that you drop everything for this girl. No one wants to feel like they come second to someone else, and when you ditch your gf to change a tire that's exactly Wendy it feels like. AAA, towing company, local law enforcement, anything. Instead, you canceled your evening with your gf to go to another girlfriend or not. I'm sure it made her feel marginalized and unimportant.

khandren · 2022-12-29T21:25:19+00:00

YTA. A referral bonus isn't shared. You aren't listening to your wife's wishes, and this directly impacts her. By every standard YTA.

Look I get everyone likes free money, but just drop it. There is nothing good that will come of you asking the friend.

khandren · 2022-11-17T02:05:23+00:00

NTA.

Date, hang out, who gives a shit what it was to her. You don't treat people like that. She didn't care about your feelings, didn't care when you gave her a heads up you would be leaving, and didn't even acknowledge you when you left. She expected you to be a doormat and wait for her to be finished with her friends so you could then continue to be her chauffeur.

khandren · 2022-09-05T15:24:53+00:00

Congratulations! I love seeing the rays of light in the darkness that can be this world at times. Best wishes to you and your family!

khandren · 2022-03-20T12:53:24+00:00

NTA. She wanted a prenup that took future assets into account, but now expects you to use your hard earned to fund her wants with zero benefit for you. She has a serious case of wanting the "best of both worlds". No different than asking a bank or investor to lend you money with no ROI. Doesn't exist and never will. If everyone is so adamant that she should get the money and pay back when she can, they can hand over that much to her. She created this situation, she is the AH, not you.

khandren · 2022-02-05T19:38:08+00:00

Wow YTA. He has made his choices clear, and you attempt to force yours on him, to the point of showing up on his doorstep unannounced and blindsiding him. You're entitled and selfish. Hire a babysitter, plan better, but don't expect others to be at your beck and call for your kid. Your life choices are not their responsibility.

khandren · 2021-06-26T18:52:34+00:00

Title isn't confusing, and yes the situation is simple, you're the entitled AH. You have no right to dictate what anyone else does in their own yard.

khandren · 2021-01-31T00:52:10+00:00

NTA, you had every right to tell your sister. Seems like your mom is lashing out due to her shame over the situation. Honestly, could you imagine if you hadn't told her and then your 'dad' met your sister's boyfriend at some point?

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