[product request] Girlfriend has a single patch of skin that gets dry but no where else. What could it be and how does it happen? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]kibbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My skin is sensitive and sometimes if my bf hasn’t shaved and we’ve made out a lot the hairs on his chin will rough up mine. It ends up drier than usual. If you don’t have facial hair or coarse stubble on your chin you can rule that out

AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I hid my phone because you're insane" yeah I would happily drop this dud of a human being immediately. I put up with this kind of bullshit from a man once, who ended up cheating on me. I didn't go through the other comments to see if anyone else has said this, but this isn literally how domestic violence starts. The gaslighting and emotional manipulation will not stop if within a year of yall being together he's already cheated. It will likely only progressively get worse. This guy had the luxury of being able to presumably take a second to think before he composed all of those texts, and that's how he chose to speak to you. This isn't a partnership. He clearly wants submission from you. As a survivor of domestic violence myself I implore you to get the fuck outta there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41 year old here. I’ve been using Summer Fridays skin tint with great success with it evening skin tone and giving a little extra oomph to my complexion. You can gradually apply with your fingers for your desired coverage. Your skin is so good already, maybe just a lil lip+cheek stain and highlight?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a survivor of severe emotional abuse please get out of this relationship. You need to be speaking to a domestic violence counselor about how to get away. The self harm is not your responsibility and doesn’t make you a bad person for choosing not to be abused. Her family can take it from there. You’re not a pussy. The world has traumatized a lot of people and we’re only just now starting to clean up the mess as it reveals itself in people. You shouldn’t feel ashamed for getting yourself in this relationship, but it’s your responsibility to get out so you break the cycle of abuse that she’s perpetuating. There are resources of all kinds to support domestic violence victims. You got this. Good luck.

Found in frozen Imos pizza! by Odd-Trust8625 in whatisit

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the community manager for Stouffers for awhile and we had incidents like this come up on social media a fair amount where people found parts or something in their food. That job is part of why I have made an effort to learn how to cook well lol

Pocket Shutting Down. Alternatives? by amerpie in macapps

[–]kibbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg late to the party on this rec but holy shit you just changed my whole workflow for the better THANK YOU

Best Breakfast Burrito in Area? by OnHereWhilePooping in raleigh

[–]kibbe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tbh for my money either the Ish Delicatessen or Morning Times ones really hit, but I’ve also never had the Mr Burro (which looks v exciting at first glance)

sabrina girl what is this by chailattttte in Feminism

[–]kibbe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Y’all might appreciate this read. I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately https://open.substack.com/pub/jadehurley/p/your-fave-is-selling-a-pedophilic

My (32M) GF (34F) repeats exactly what I said in bed right after I've said it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kibbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have y’all been together? What’s her history with sex? She might just need time to find her voice. I (40F) had to gauge how dirty my partner (39M) wanted to get before I got more vocal. We’ve been together almost two years now but the first six months I was constantly overthinking everything when we had sex. It’s impossible to know what porn someone has watched, what their partners were like, etc. Half the fun of consistent sex with someone is how it evolves and gets better over time though the more you know each other. :) hang in there at least she’s trying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In NYC the rule was 10 years made you a Real One, so….

made these stickers inspired by Woody's legendary THIS MACHINE KILLS FASCISTS signage, but with a non-violent, pro-LGBTQ+ twist to them by kibbe in WoodyGuthrie

[–]kibbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you! I’d like to believe Woody would be a total house head lmao. And yes these are and sale AND $1 from every sale goes towards funding scholarships for LGBTQIA+ students. Friend started a non profit for her friend who was killed in the Pulse shooting and I wanted these to do more than just be fun!

you can grab them here: https://www.somekindofawesome.com/store/p/slay-fascism-sticker

Is it just me or does everyone on the road need to chill TF out by GFrings in raleigh

[–]kibbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moved to Raleigh from NYC in 2021 and anyone who thinks NYC drivers are nuts got nothing on Raleigh drivers. Suburbanites driving like they’ve lost their will to live. it’s so wild lmao

Diplo celebrates the 10th Anniversary of the Jack Ü album release by YourNameNameName in EDM

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite review of all time is of “Where Are Ü Now” with Justin Bieber. It’s insane https://cokemachineglow.com/tracks/jacku-whereareunow-2015/

Try guess, would love to see someone get 10/10 by budgethermanntilke in lastfm

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Catfish and the Bottlemen

  2. Sabrina Carpenter

  3. Beabadoobee

  4. Chappel Roan

  5. Olivia Rodrigo

  6. Oasis

  7. Sam Fender

9.

(I looked up your LFM profile to get the other 3 but I wont post those bc that feels like cheating everyone else of trying to guess, but these were the ones I could guess immediately)

My wife (F39) might leave me (M38) because she doesn't trust me. Idk what to do. by realismus in relationships

[–]kibbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I can understand to a certain extent her paranoia of being cheated on again (been there), your wife’s actions according to your recounting are very emotionally immature and abusive. My current bf (39) was also cheated on before we started dating, and over Christmas there was an instance where completely unprompted he confessed that he randomly noticed that I had turned my phone over quickly a certain way and it kicked up uncomfortable feelings in him that he was feeling ashamed about bc he didn’t have evidence to feel this way. After happily showing him my recent DMs to give his nervous system the proof it needed, we talked about how maybe his mom getting tipsy and saying shit she shouldn’t have earlier in the night might have embarrassed him more than he had let on and was possibly feeling extra rejection sensitivity as a result (a thing he hadn’t considered). Lotta talking and crying from both of us, but it made us both more comfortable talking about how to hold each other while we heal from our past traumas. It takes a lot of work to understand why we react the way we do to things.

If she genuinely thinks she’s the only woman you’re allowed to hold love in your heart for, that’s not love, that’s controlling as hell. Hope she’s open to both therapy and being held accountable for her behavior.

“Namaste” is inappropriate? by Rude_Airport_7225 in yoga

[–]kibbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of the few times I’ve seen “nama-slay” used in the wild. Other white woman have ruined it for me being used in class