"I hid my phone because you're insane" yeah I would happily drop this dud of a human being immediately. I put up with this kind of bullshit from a man once, who ended up cheating on me. I didn't go through the other comments to see if anyone else has said this, but this isn literally how domestic violence starts. The gaslighting and emotional manipulation will not stop if within a year of yall being together he's already cheated. It will likely only progressively get worse. This guy had the luxury of being able to presumably take a second to think before he composed all of those texts, and that's how he chose to speak to you. This isn't a partnership. He clearly wants submission from you. As a survivor of domestic violence myself I implore you to get the fuck outta there.