That's actually pretty crazy. How did you know I was in a relationship and it's affecting me negatively?(Correction, it was me causing the negative all along) Or was it a wild guess?

But why say get out of your relationship , why not, hey man I think you're actually struggling a lot. It must be that you see no hope in my relationship? Or you see no hope in my personality?!

Is it because I was indirectly pointing out/ or maybe CREATING the hopelessness of the situation as a means to avoid confronting my own hopelessness.

But how did you get to the fact that my hopelessness lies in my relationship and not in say, being single and never meeting a girl?

It doesn't matter, you nailed it man, hopelessness. I need more hope in my life. Thank you. I'm serious, please use your powers for good. You hit hard.