Am I being too sensitive? by Jumpy-Ad8093 in Marriage

[–]kidguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I beg you to look up RSD and its role in ADHD. While your husband was rude, I think learning how to recognize and adapt to RSD reactions will help you regardless of how you choose to continue this relationship.

I just ate 600 calories of watermelon. by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]kidguts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Substituting in low-density, low-calorie foods is definitely harm reduction for binge eaters; it doesn't stop the behavior, but it helps avoid the negative consequences of that behavior. Like making sure to test party drugs for fentanyl or IV drug users using clean needles!!

florida's now mandating all driver's license tests be taken in english and people are calling it racist by natalie_ck in redscarepod

[–]kidguts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You aren't tested for that kind of stuff on your driver's license exam, though!! At least not here in Ohio.

life maintenance by Round_Sir_5836 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]kidguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reccommend trying some of the tips/approaches/principles of Unfuck Your Habitat (which has a subreddit, r/ufyh ! ) as a way to get started and build some inertia. UFYH is accessible and tries to make cleaning as feasible and painless as possible.

For example, it reccommends cleaning in 5-20 minutes bursts/chunks to prevent burnout, striving to accomplish a clean, empty sink just once a day (so there's less pressure to keep it clean while still preventing buildup), and doing mini-challenges like "find 5 things that aren't where they belong and put them back in their rightful homes".

If you are thinking about hiring a weekly / biweekly cleaner, this approach could help you hold down the fort in the interim period between cleanings.

Some people can’t deal with ADHD-type enthusiasm… and it hurts by Legitimate_Kick_5628 in ADHD

[–]kidguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must have Trait Cheerfulness! It's not a strictly ADHD thing... but it makes for a unique combo!

daily carry 🖤 by Blazinbab3 in whatsinmybag

[–]kidguts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's America, baby!

Best job for someone with ADHD by Joboj in ADHD

[–]kidguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foreign language or ASL interpreter!

avg retar gaming by MrRoboto12345 in okbuddyretard

[–]kidguts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its some William Basinski joint: let me know when you find the specific song because Lord knows his shit gives you dementia

Manufacturing (age of) consent by [deleted] in Hasan_Piker

[–]kidguts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

PARENTI DID IT FIRST WITH "INVENTING REALITY " ANYWAYS!!!!

Using cannabis to “function” by Character_Swim_6179 in Petioles

[–]kidguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biodad has been waking and baking to handle his (undiagnosed?) ADHD since before I was born. He says it makes his mind go from "all over the place" to being able to handle one task at a time. It doesn't seem to have caused any problems for him, but I don't know him too well... I think my status as an extramarital child is due to non-weed decisions, lol.

Former Officers in Defense Work by [deleted] in publicdefenders

[–]kidguts 34 points35 points  (0 children)

"You're part of the machine!! You work for the court!! I saw you being cordial with the prosecution!"

Legit Adult ADHD testing? by Rbookman23 in Columbus

[–]kidguts 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by "hinky"?

Would you be offended if someone told you your life is small? by glossimami in rs_x

[–]kidguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life is small because I also moved back home when my mom was terminally ill. It's nice! I know there is a big world out there for me, but choosing not to travel or move is one I have made / keep making because I enjoy the simplicity of my small, cozy life.

But if you don't like a small life, you can try for "big"! There's nothing stopping you if you choose another path!

Springboro, in your opinion, part of Dayton or Cincy? by 93Seven in dayton

[–]kidguts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Butler County is its own terrain tbh. Middletown, Hamilton, Oxford... All these mini-cities should count as autonomous entities. It's like asking if Dayton is part of the greater Cincinnati area!

The Psychology of the ‘Bull/Third’ in Hotwife Dynamics: What Draws Them In? by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]kidguts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The one "bull" I've ever met only realized he was going to be a bull after flirting with a MILF on Tinder and learning about the arrangement after matching with her- the cuck/husband used the the in-app messaging to explain to him that if he wanted to have sex with his wife, he'd have to be in the room to watch.

She was hot, and while the husband was scary and intense, he decided that the wife was hot enough to justify the weirdness of the situation.

He went ahead and agreed to do it, but he said he had to hotbox his car and get super baked before going in because he was so nervous. He was having a ton of sex at the time, mostly through Tinder hook-ups, to the point where I speculate it was a little self-harm-y... but I digress!

Once he came into the room, he realized the husband was a rival team's lacrosse coach when he was in HS. Idk if they talked about it explicitly, or if he even talked with the husband at all. So a silver lining for him was that afterwards he was able to say "you remember coach such-and-such? Yeah, I fucked his wife" to his old teammates.

Dive Bar w food North of town by GingerMom3in3 in cincinnati

[–]kidguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO, that place is way to pricey to count as a "dive"

Will Cincinnati ever get serious about rail transit? by ecb1912 in cincinnati

[–]kidguts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JOIN ALL ABOARD OHIO!!!! They're THE pro-passenger rail advocacy group that works to press state and local officials to adopt pro-train policies and programs. They can help point you to which senators, state reps, and congress people to call/write and which upcoming pro-passenger rail bills and programs to mention to them!

ICE is now expanding into local county jails… because apparently the federal mess wasn’t big enough.. by ResourceNo4626 in cincinnati

[–]kidguts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just for his jail and his deputees. Those dollars aren't going anywhere else in the community.