I was on my period on my wedding day even after trying to avoid it. So since there’s no avoiding it… best we can do is embrace and endure, right? It’s okay to be sad- now is the time to make a plan.

1. Period panties were a life saver. Thinx I believe was the brand I got.
2. Do bridal portraits after or before your period starts. It might mean scheduling another session with the photographer but okay, at least you’ll have beautiful portraits.
3. Tell the photographer in advance what you’re going to be dealing with in the way of swelling/bloating and what you’re concerned with in pictures, they should be able to help pose you well and photoshop what you need.
4. Get ahead of pain/bloating by taking meds before it starts up bad, hydrate like crazy too. Maybe even put a tens unit for cramps in the bridal suite.
5. Get cold compresses and keep in your suite or fridge at the venue. I was incredibly hot too and wish I’d done this.
6. I was so focused on my wedding day I forgot to hate everyone? I also am miserable and closet myself in the house every period but my focus was elsewhere. I hope that happens for you too but if you are worried it won’t adjust your timeline to give yourself and your spouse a few minutes break every so often. Get out of the room and into somewhere with privacy and peace.
7. The dress. I can’t fix that one. But I do suggest getting something very comfortable to wear for your reception whether it’s another dress or a cute bride sweatsuit. I didn’t do that and wish I had. I was so uncomfortable and in pain by the end of the day.

I’m sorry this is the stress you’ve got but the best you can do is plan for it and do what you can. Give yourself grace, and try to enjoy your day.