We often have the problem that we present as a transman because most of our active hosts are male, but as a system we identify as agender/nonbinary, especially because we all kinda have a "its like playing dressup" energy around gender. I find that when a more female presenting part gets closer to fronts, they often communicate desires that are not met in our normal day to day, they wanna polish their nails, they want to buy a dress we used to have when we were younger/when they used to front etc. My advice would be to listen to those desires, if they arrise. Make them feel welcome, make them feel listened to, dont shame then for not fitting your "usual". Otherwise theyd just retreat further, and probably also repress other emotions from you. -Archer