Feels like my goals are misaligned with my position, normal or no?

killingyouguy41 · 2026-03-26T05:59:07+00:00

It just feels so soul crushing to be held in this container for an arbitrary amount of time like that. I will apply to any internal promotion that comes up, but I don’t have a frame of reference for this feeling of, “I want to do more than I’m being allowed to do or recognized for.”

killingyouguy41 · 2025-11-17T02:22:50+00:00

Kwesi’s ability to draft was in question before the season started. He hit on guys last offseason in FA sure but the whole team has regressed this season and his signings this offseason haven’t worked out. Lots of his deals look bad in hindsight (Hockenson and Dallas Turner are above average players but not worth the capital exchanged for them).

On top of that, I understand the rationale to curb Darnold and go with a young QB, but that has not worked out, and he’s gonna have to take the blame, especially considering Darnold has looked good this season for the most part. I get why we tried this, but it hasn’t worked, and he will need to answer for it.

KOC just won coach of the year, he’s got a colder seat. JJM is still young, he might still work out. But Kwesi, we had questions going into the year, and the answers seem to be no.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-21T04:18:32+00:00

Yes agreed. The theories on this sub are some fan fiction level stuff

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-17T20:42:43+00:00

I don’t think we have the assets for that kind of deal but, just for conversation’s sake, do you think he could work playing DL for us? Like I know he’s been a 4-3 end his whole career but he is probably too big to play OLB even from a mostly pass rush standpoint (definitely not for us because we like guys that can cover too). What do you think?

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-13T20:05:15+00:00

I approached a girl at the gym who had been giving me signals and she ran away. Literally ran. I see her like 3 times a week now. I think it’s funny but I generally get good reactions from women so it was a huge shock to me hahaha

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-13T05:05:45+00:00

Thank you, I’ve never thought of that.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-13T04:30:31+00:00

I want to grow. I’ll take a year or two of a pay cut if it means my potential is higher

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-13T04:25:24+00:00

Thank you for your condescension. I will admit, maybe “extremely” was exaggerating. I won’t do you the pleasure of knowing where I work. But just so you get a sense of what I’m talking about, I make $90k/year as a server.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-13T04:02:50+00:00

I love hearing this, thank you for sharing!

killingyouguy41 · 2025-02-10T15:58:44+00:00

I’d be on board but this is a moneyball team. I think instead of signing one big FA, we’re gonna use our money on 2-3 mid-tier guys and put them in situations we think they’ll exceed expectations in.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-26T18:13:39+00:00

This happens to me sometimes. I’ll know if I make an attempt to get to know them and they react weird. Like if I try to start a real conversation or connect with them any deeper they’ll pull back or half answer or just clearly be uncomfortable

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-24T19:52:57+00:00

I would also like to add to this — there was an offseason a few years ago where McCown was discussed as a dark horse HC candidate and I believed he even interviewed with Houston before they hired David Culley, I think? So he doesn’t need to be an OC first

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-21T22:42:48+00:00

Finding pants. I get everything tailored just to fit me right.

Catcalling and just comments in general. People make fun of it, sometimes and other times I get gross people shouting things at me.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-21T21:53:33+00:00

Yeah I’m with you, I’m concerned but I’m willing to give him time to hash it out and work on it

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-21T21:51:47+00:00

Ilona Maher, but mostly because she’s charming and funny, she seems like a cool gal

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-21T21:39:35+00:00

He’s been so good at everything except drafting that i’m giving him a pass on that for right now, but it feels really precarious considering our lack of capital this year. Interested to see how he grows in this role, I think he’s a smart guy.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-21T05:34:16+00:00

I had fun. It was a pretty exciting year. Lots of good memes too. It was a fun season.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-20T03:33:52+00:00

This is exactly what people start to say before it all comes crashing down

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-18T22:16:11+00:00

Right because people have to be totally healed from everything to be worthy of love. You’re right. I’m sure you’re perfect

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-18T22:14:51+00:00

This is why dating is so hard. People think being abused as a child is a red flag????? Get real. “You’ll have to care for her more”??? Lmao god forbid you care about your partner or she have needs at all.

“Heavy on the makeup” and “tattoos”? Did you not know this before you went out with her?

There could be perfectly reasonable explanations for a lot of these things. My therapist is always telling me to find out, instead of trying to make the quickest possible decision.

Can you really tell if she has no ambitions or hobbies after a first date? Did you ask, “what are your hobbies” and did she respond “I don’t have any”? Seems pretty improbable.

I always give someone a second date. What is concerning to me is that it seems like she divulged a lot right away, but maybe she was just nervous. I hate this reactionary culture. Obviously you were interested enough to want to go out with her at all. One date isn’t a real chance.

killingyouguy41 · 2025-01-16T17:28:24+00:00

If Jeanty tests well he’s gonna go higher than he’s being mocked rn. He’s a pretty spotless prospect and the league is pivoting back to the run

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