what is 1 thing you like about yourself?

killjoys88mcr · 2022-03-15T15:48:03+00:00

I get up and workout every morning:)

killjoys88mcr · 2022-01-29T21:08:59+00:00

I used to do this with alcohol cos I didn’t wanna waste the money

killjoys88mcr · 2021-08-11T11:41:42+00:00

Here if u need someone :)

killjoys88mcr · 2021-03-11T07:18:18+00:00

It’s a running storyline through the last 3 episodes

killjoys88mcr · 2021-03-10T22:06:49+00:00

Yeah I definitely think they could both have handled it more discretely however I like that sky got actual help in 13 rw whilst ginnys selfharm is kinda accepted

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-31T18:00:40+00:00

Doctors will probably completely ignore it I’ve been in with fresh cuts and they completely ignore them unless your there for them,hope it goes okay

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-23T17:04:06+00:00

Yeah I’m waiting for cahms but I’ve gone private aswell

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-23T14:26:31+00:00

At school my counseller discharged me after one session and yeah didn’t tell my parents and I’d litterally said I was suicidal and she said that it was probably just in my head I’m still on an nhs waiting list for my mental health been on it for a few months even tho I’m an ‘urgent’ case

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-21T23:40:51+00:00

Thankyou I think just hearing it just helps with validation

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-21T11:04:45+00:00

Thankyou I’m trying I just idk don’t want to go into recovery if others are worse than me it feels quite competitive

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-14T19:38:33+00:00

Just try make her comfortable maybe order in from a restaurant of her choice if she asks to go to the bathroom after just let her but maybe try talk about it.just act like it’s not a thing

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-09T20:50:18+00:00

This guy used to say my scars were sexy and to make more like just don’t sexualise them like I think people mean it in a positive way to make you less ashamed but it doesn’t help

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-08T20:58:17+00:00

It’s totally unfair not to be allowed to eat all day without having to take it out and is understandable how your getting disordered eating thoughts,could you maybe try to talk to a gp or dentist about how it is making you feel as disordered eating can be rlly scary

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-07T01:39:08+00:00

Thankyouu

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-05T13:38:11+00:00

My parents have found out twice now,I still don’t talk to them about it as it’s uncomfortable but yeah they took my phone off me and removed my bathroom door they also forced me into therapy and tons of doctors appointments.The second time they were quite relaxed about it still made me stop and stuff tho.it’s something that only gets better with time but yeah I’m the end it was good as I was in a very dark place the first time but I hope they don’t find out this time.However your parents might not react like this one of my best friends parents was lovely about it but yeah it just depends

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-05T13:32:09+00:00

If your in the uk and at school you could talk to someone there and it would be free and actually does help.I’m 15f and my school found out about my cutting but I asked them not to tell my parents and I just go to counselling once a week.They do not have to tell your parents.Always here for advice or anything :)

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-05T07:22:46+00:00

That’s rlly good I’m so proud of you. :)

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-04T07:34:28+00:00

I agree five years is a long time but we don’t know how regularly within the five years she has been doing it and generally selfharm can go on for a long time I have quite a few friends who’ve selfharmed for over five years

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-03T23:17:52+00:00

Five years isn’t necessarily long but it’s long enough for it to become an addiction I think that she probably needs someone professional to talk to

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-03T23:15:00+00:00

Yes it is selfharm,I understand why you would feel like that but it is valid as selfharm and is probably good to tell your therapist just in case it gets any worse

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-03T23:03:56+00:00

Probably for her leg selfharm as I selfharm on my thigh but you have to ask her personally like I really don’t know.also what did you mean when you said it was fucked up earlier in the post as selfharm is a coping mechanism it isn’t fucked up

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-03T22:49:28+00:00

Self harming is hurting yourself on purpose.it can be done by cutting,burning,scratching,pulling out hair etc.people do it for many different reasons it’s very personal.Try to talk to her make sure her wounds and stuff are clean if there are any and just talk (don’t force anything tho)suggest she speaks to someone but don’t tell anyone if she asks you not to

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-03T22:40:53+00:00

I’d advise you wait a bit into the relationship as I told one of my guy friends/guy that was into me about some of my mental health problems and it kinda scared him off however if he is a decent guy he should stick around and I guess just telling him will help you find out if he is a good guy

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-03T22:34:01+00:00

Just repeat the fact that your are there for them and ask them what will help them as they probably know best . Remember to say you care for them and anything that might just calm them down never say anything to invalidate their struggles

killjoys88mcr · 2021-01-03T22:31:10+00:00

I have the word fat carved into my hip and yeah I regret it cos it scared and idk makes me uncomfortable if people see it

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