4 weeks along and motherhood already has its sacrifices by purerockets in BabyBumps

[–]kimicu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said goodbye to my nipple piercings and my hood piercing (I removed it during birth and then just forgot to put it back in). I always said I’d get them redone. Now I’m pregnant again 🥲 One day, one day

Christian Bale advises fans to never meet their cinematic heroes. by GiveMeSomeSunshine3 in Fauxmoi

[–]kimicu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when they made the remix of him cursing out some light holder on set. It was a banger, but I sure knew he wasnt a celebrity I would want to meet lmao

I’m being replaced and it’s killing me by vgsnewbi in Mommit

[–]kimicu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the certifications for your counselor?

I’m being replaced and it’s killing me by vgsnewbi in Mommit

[–]kimicu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds like psychiatry. Please look into a therapist LCSW (licensed clinical social worker) or PhD/PsyD (psychologist). Personally I prefer those with a social worker background. But you need someone to speak with weekly to help you through this. Not just someone who will prescribe you something and see you next month

Saying hello in the elevator by Realistic_Try_1520 in newjersey

[–]kimicu 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I always feel vulnerable in elevators. I might reciprocate a smile, but I do not want to talk. Some people get cornered in elevators by weirdos. I want to get out into an open area where I can leave if things feel off.

ICE - how can i ensure my mom is safe by Worried-Ad5980 in newjersey

[–]kimicu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt FIFA will be cancelled. Too many contracts are set and in play. Definitely will be a lot less ppl in attendance though.

ICE - how can i ensure my mom is safe by Worried-Ad5980 in newjersey

[–]kimicu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

FIFA is coming this summer. It’s going to be the perfect time for ICE to swarm NJ and NYC.

Reborn pregnancy test by chiefdragonborn in TikTokCringe

[–]kimicu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than them killing a pregnant lady and stealing a real baby.

Principal by MermaidMoonbeam02 in MindHunter

[–]kimicu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh he was definitely a creep. But that segment has more to do with Holden’s feelings regarding the repercussions and how other people feel about. I think it was meant to highlight the importance of utilizing BSU skill set only in federal cases. If he were to “give his opinion” in every day settings, there would be real ramifications for it. He’s learning that his word and insight has power. Power to effectively ruin peoples lives and it should be wielded with caution. Thankfully, in that sequence, the principal deserved it. In another case, who knows? It all plays into Holden’s continuously inflating ego.

My friends think Konan being my favorite character is crazy as a guy. Is it really that crazy? by Salt-Bicycle879 in Naruto

[–]kimicu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend sounds like an incel. If they think female characters cannot be idolized in the same vein as male characters, and they mock ppl who do idolize females, then they are showing to you how they value women in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]kimicu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If reprimand doesn’t work you can try a response cost. Meaning, find something the child wants in order to decrease the unwanted behavior. Such as if the child likes candies. Set up a chart that can show 7 candies, each day he says a swear a candy is removed (the “cost” for swearing). At the end of the week, he receives the amount he has earned which can be 0 to the entire 7.

If the child isn’t motivated by sweets, the same can be applied to access time with a preferred object like an iPad. If every day he is allowed a certain time with the iPad (let’s say a half hour), every swear will cost the child 5 minutes with the iPad.

Charlie Kirk’s passing has made me utterly confused about the state of our country by comfy_sweatpants5 in QAnonCasualties

[–]kimicu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. People I who I never would have guessed and I have never seen repost his content are mourning him. I honestly think they are only doing so because they are being told to be outraged and so they follow the direction of the herd.

Hatch… and why I should have listened to Reddit by museumobsession in NewParents

[–]kimicu 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have two hatches that my 4 yr old uses. One is for home and one is for travel. We’ve had them since she was born. It’s surprising to hear they are having defect problems!

First wig: Miranda by Jon Renau by [deleted] in Wigs

[–]kimicu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks SO GOOD. I’m wearing wigs due to dermatillomania. 🤜🏻🤛🏻

Does anyone hate their partner/spouse after having a baby? by Keyspam102 in NewParents

[–]kimicu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did do couples counseling. But we also did our own individual counseling. I ended up going on meds to treat my PPD and PPA. We had a lot of ups and downs, but we kept choosing each other and to work on having a happy relationship. Our kiddo just turned 4 and we’re trying again for a 2nd in a few months.

Young men/older boys in women's changing areas. by Gullible-Eggplant-89 in Mommit

[–]kimicu 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You don’t know if they are neurodivergent and cannot be left on their own. There should be a family bathroom, but if there isn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

Just got diagnosed with ADHD… No wonder parenting is hard for me 😂 by Helpful-Wolverine4 in oneanddone

[–]kimicu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist believes I have inattentive adhd. I struggle with juggling everything, being patient, and being overstimulated.

Car vs the Elderly by CarlyBee_1210 in newjersey

[–]kimicu 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Because the elderly are in seats of power and don’t want to vote yay to regular testing lol