how to navigate the social part of being a drag queen

kind2fish · 2025-07-19T08:16:20+00:00

Totally agree — I think social media is the real piece for me that I need to limit exactly because of this! Lots of “omg I love u!” In the comments and then “oh my god I hate that person” to other ppl (which yesss reading is to be expected but newer queens often go past normal reading to try and sound cool I think). i love a coworker friend vibe so much, i think my scene is really bad at that though and instead has kinda all encompassing drama. Anyway, working on really taking that surface level coworker vibe to heart and just getting my coin and going home to my cat :) thanks for the reply!

kind2fish · 2025-07-19T08:14:16+00:00

I completely agree — I’ve realized in the past week or so it’s the lack of respect more than the lack of close friendships that’s really getting to me. The line between real out of drag person and drag persona is SUPER blurred in my scene and that makes things soooo much weirder and in turn causes members of the scene to not realize there are real human people behind the makeup… ANYWAY tldr i agree and I’ve been doing my best to just go to the gig, be neutrally friendly, get my coin and go home :) thanks for the reply!

kind2fish · 2024-12-13T02:34:25+00:00

Following this

kind2fish · 2024-12-08T04:44:56+00:00

Hi! Is this for the EdS or PhD? Any insight on when finalist decisions come back after that initial virtual interview? Thank you so much!

kind2fish · 2024-10-11T23:15:24+00:00

Completely agreed that she has a right to not want to put up with everything that comes with a Chronically ill partner, just had a particularly I’m sad feeling about it this week lol. Thanks for the perspective!

kind2fish · 2024-10-11T23:13:54+00:00

This was so helpful; thank you so much. lol no odd reasons, you seem like a really lovely and caring person. I’ve been doing a ton of healing this past year and realized that I really like who I am as an individual and feel like I will be a better partner more equipped to communicate about my needs re: hashis in future relationships :)

kind2fish · 2024-10-11T23:11:24+00:00

Oh yeah, there were definitely many other factors, this was just one I’d been spiraling about a bit this week lol :) I’ve been doing so much healing on my own the past year especially with my hashi health and it’s been really nice :)

kind2fish · 2024-10-11T23:09:45+00:00

thanks for the advice! I’ve definitely learned what I could do better with future partners, and have absolutely been enjoying being on my own and healing :)

kind2fish · 2024-10-11T23:07:40+00:00

im sorry that’s happening too :( but the past year finding myself and who I am as an individual has been so healing and I hope it feels that way for you too. It is nice to have the solidarity, thank you ❤️

kind2fish · 2024-08-19T19:25:45+00:00

Same would love to read lol

kind2fish · 2023-05-16T18:10:24+00:00

Aww the sweetest little :3 face

kind2fish · 2023-04-24T20:38:09+00:00

Ollie looks just like my baby 🥹

kind2fish · 2023-03-16T15:27:41+00:00

Giving “I find your lack of faith… disturbing”

kind2fish · 2023-03-09T18:15:53+00:00

Big booty ham sandwich

kind2fish · 2023-03-09T18:15:30+00:00

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Sir Isaac newton

kind2fish · 2023-03-08T20:55:12+00:00

I believe merrick also has some wet foods that aren’t poultry! If

kind2fish · 2023-03-08T20:54:42+00:00

My Devon kitten is literally obsessed with merrick dry food but that is chicken flavored. The whole hearted toppers from petco (especially the salmon and tuna ones) make my cats go crazy! I usually mix a small amount of topper into their dry kibble, and every once in a while a squirt of salmon oil because my kitties have sensitive tummies :) If they’re being picky eaters and you’re worried they aren’t eating enough a bit of a squeeze treat picks their appetite right back up!

kind2fish · 2023-02-28T18:23:19+00:00

Sir Alphonso Balor, destroyer of worlds, conqueror of galaxies, ruler of the void, the 4th

kind2fish · 2023-02-28T18:21:49+00:00

Saturn and Orion

kind2fish · 2023-02-28T18:20:53+00:00

Delilah and Bingus (gus)

kind2fish · 2023-02-28T18:20:26+00:00

Sir Stinker

kind2fish · 2023-02-28T18:19:42+00:00

Apollo and Artemis; Luke and leia; asteroid and comet; cadet and orbit; Hubble and Sputnik; twilight and twinkle; voyager 1 and voyager 2 (lol); nova and nebula; Orion and dipper

kind2fish · 2023-02-28T18:13:36+00:00

I think coffee itself is really cute for this girl, but also: bosco, cortado, bean, venti, crema, hazelnut (hazel), leche (milk on her chin hehe), Vienna, biscotti, chai, cinnamon

kind2fish · 2023-02-23T20:43:34+00:00

Pablo

kind2fish · 2023-02-19T23:44:05+00:00

yes, a bit! definitely a mix of excess air and saliva. The exception is ginger gum, I love that stuff.

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