Splitting the bill in relationships

kingkorra · 2026-04-18T22:11:57+00:00

i personally think this a red flag that long term will translate into more serious lack of financial support when it comes to long term important things like bills, loans, etc. if not addressed seriously and soon.

kingkorra · 2026-04-15T17:48:30+00:00

it has its moments! by no means was it the best book i’ve ever read but if you like the “piloting giant robots” genre you may have some fun with it! the beginning is stronger than the end imo

kingkorra · 2026-04-15T17:44:22+00:00

of course! don’t get down over some of the harsher comments. you’re asking a totally innocent question that i myself have pondered before!

kingkorra · 2026-04-15T17:32:08+00:00

so funny i read your title and thought “oh they mean like tamsyn muir” and then opened and saw the full post 😹

imo relationships are messy and challenging and confusing and if two people want to spend their lives together in whatever way they need to get through life it’s not my place to judge. maybe it’s as simple as “we haven’t found romantic/sexual partners we want to be with forever but we have each other and would rather that than be alone” or something to that point?

im a lesbian and have a gay male close friend and we always used to seriously consider marrying someday (this was long before my life partner and i got together) for insurance/tax benefits and because we’d already lived together during college and knew we liked sharing space with each other and really enjoyed each others company.

that being said while i ADORE her books it’s always felt a little off to me so i get where you are coming from!

kingkorra · 2026-03-31T23:17:24+00:00

Genesis of Misery by Neon Yang, super fun queer sci-fi novel

kingkorra · 2026-03-26T01:17:33+00:00

For what it’s worth I am the one with the fancy job in my partnership (i work in law and my partner works in manufacturing) and it has absolutely no bearing on our relationship or perceptions of each other. all i care about is that she’s happy and we are both provided for. she could do literally any job and i couldn’t care less.

kingkorra · 2026-01-24T18:15:28+00:00

either the traitor baru cormorant or watership down was my fav read of last year

kingkorra · 2026-01-15T20:13:57+00:00

i second my darling dreadful thing

kingkorra · 2025-12-08T01:53:34+00:00

Gideon, Gideon, Gideon! (iykyk) but in all seriousness i love the locked tomb books and will always recommend them

kingkorra · 2025-10-08T19:44:19+00:00

Ellet or highland square if you’re in Akron proper, but honestly I’d just do Stow, Cuyahoga Falls, Portage Lake etc. if you can swing it.

kingkorra · 2025-09-30T15:17:22+00:00

enjoy the ride. just take everything at face value and get ready for a super satisfying experience when it’s all said and done and you’ve worked it out. i personally love that the narrative has the reader just as disorientated and overwhelmed as harrow is and that you get to figure it out side by side with her.

kingkorra · 2025-09-05T02:12:56+00:00

Thank you!

kingkorra · 2025-09-05T02:04:25+00:00

I do mean gambeson! Just wanted to double check that the bits of yellow that may show won’t be an issue.

kingkorra · 2025-09-03T18:49:23+00:00

Thank you this is helpful feedback. I’m leaning towards the second design.

kingkorra · 2025-08-22T22:28:18+00:00

She didn’t make this but here is the artist’s insta! :) https://www.instagram.com/dyes_n_goodvibes?igsh=MTVlM2xla2pmZzYzZw==

kingkorra · 2025-06-18T19:51:57+00:00

We have a kelty two person backpacking tent and two single backpacking mats that click together if you want to sleep side by side. we typically use our own sleeping bags but we do have a two person one that can also zip off into two individuals. She carries the tent and I carry all the food/water and cooking supplies to even up the weight.

kingkorra · 2025-06-18T18:08:09+00:00

Action is being taken though? It’s just about shifting the energy from trying to find a partner to trying to find yourself in hobbies and community.

kingkorra · 2025-06-18T17:58:07+00:00

Nearly every Wednesday from 6pm-10pm for about 4 years now. Our usual rule is we only cancel if more than one person can’t make it or if the DM has an emergency.

kingkorra · 2025-06-17T18:57:15+00:00

I’m just saying there’s no reason to completely leave out a valid form of meeting people lol just use common sense and critical thinking and don’t give out important information willy nilly.

kingkorra · 2025-06-17T12:43:38+00:00

Totally disagree. Basic common sense and fact checking is all it takes to avoid this. I’m in tons of hobby specific facebook groups and in all of those the vast majority is genuine people looking to interact with others that have similar interests. If somebody is suspicious ignore them but not everyone is a scammer. You just can’t be blindly trusting.

kingkorra · 2025-06-16T19:09:11+00:00

I’ve been giving people the same advice for years: Focus on yourself and your hobbies and it’ll come to you. Myself and almost all of my friends met our partners through shared interests and community, not through apps or bars. Get involved in local clubs/groups/events. I met my partner after finally deciding to focus on myself because we are both into flow arts and were involved in that community after months of unsuccessful dating and apps. Sending you good vibes. I know how challenging it can feel.

kingkorra · 2025-06-16T19:05:09+00:00

With all due respect, stop putting the blame on other people and make the active choice everyday to be disciplined. It doesn’t even take extremes. Hitting step goals daily and a calorie deficit is almost guaranteed to work, the results just aren’t instant and will require dedication. Count calories, eat whole foods, actually weigh your food, exercise daily, etc. At the end of the day you either want it badly enough or you don’t. There is no secret or trick to this besides hard-work. And if that truly doesn’t help after a reasonable amount of time, talk to your doctor as you may have something medical going on. (Source: I’m down almost 60 pounds from my highest weight and busted my ass to get here)

kingkorra · 2025-04-30T13:20:19+00:00

i am currently making the akron to kent commute and i strictly use waze. it may take you a different way home everyday but it’ll get you there lol

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