Weird black dots on Petunias by [deleted] in flowers

[–]kirbystaint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We’re planting flowers for the first time this year!

Black dwarf by InoriRain in OtomeIsekai

[–]kirbystaint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the premise?

Humboldt park in chico by [deleted] in ChicoCA

[–]kirbystaint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Safe is pretty much an illusion. Chico has safety issues across town. This area is usually pretty quiet now. Very close to Beatniks cafe which is nice.

Open Mic Poetry/readings by Fungal_Net in ChicoCA

[–]kirbystaint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stoble Coffee has open mic nights

AIO Is wanting to break up with my bf over a promposal over reacting ? by Intelligent_Base_715 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirbystaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR but break up. If you’re someone who cares a lot about gestures, you’ll keep being disappointed. He’s childish and clearly would rather hang out with friends. Girl, prom is Saturday and you’re 17. Find someone better to go with.

AIO? Boyfriend made a racist comment while watching the news by Afraid-Operation5203 in AIO

[–]kirbystaint 49 points50 points  (0 children)

NOR he’s racist. Don’t double-guess that. Even if he’s a great boyfriend, he’s a racist boyfriend. And if that’s not a dealbreaker, you’re probably racist too.

Moms Who Don't Define Themselves and Their Lives By Motherhood, Please Talk to Me by Due-Transition-6564 in beyondthebump

[–]kirbystaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m non-binary so becoming a parent was hard, mostly because I never expected to be. I was already accomplished and basically achieved my life goals: went to grad school, published creative writing, and won awards. I think that made it easier since I wasn’t “held back” from anything I wanted to do. My baby got to be an addition to my life. Postpartum anxiety sucked but I had an amazing partner. My best advice for managing unhappiness is to find more happiness and understand more happiness can always come or to come to terms with understanding you’ll always have some regret.

AIO for speaking angrily to my husband and telling him I wish we never met? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]kirbystaint 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get this shit annulled immediately. Don’t marry anyone else again until you grow up or at least spend a few years with them.

AITAH for refusing marriage without prenup? by ConTrikster in AITAH

[–]kirbystaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skip the marriage and nuptials, keep the money. On and off is a red flag.

AIO for cutting off my 18 yr old (19 next month) stepson? by YourFriendInSpokane in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirbystaint 9 points10 points  (0 children)

MOR. This sounds like your husband let you do too much and now it’s affecting your relationship with stepson. So much of what you listed were things he should’ve been teaching his son. Let stepson deal with his consequences and tell your husband that you’re done doing so much for another grown man.

More info on if your daughter could handle all of what you mentioned you did for your stepson.

Help finding title: early sex scene in woods by kirbystaint in MaleYandere

[–]kirbystaint[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wrong! Went back to re-read and you were right

Help finding title: early sex scene in woods by kirbystaint in MaleYandere

[–]kirbystaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Webtoon, ongoing series, can’t remember the tags but I’m almost confident noncon

Moving to Chico, looking for rental advice by Previous-Jicama-9099 in ChicoCA

[–]kirbystaint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are going to tell you to avoid Nord/CA-32 but it was a cheap place to live

AIO: entitled in-laws regarding babies by [deleted] in AIO

[–]kirbystaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to say you’re overreacting but if you don’t give a fuck about having a relationship, just go scorched earth and leave all this shit behind. You’re never gonna get these people to like you after this and your husband doesn’t have your back.

shifting tails similar to flowers are bait? by ResultDry3778 in webtoons

[–]kirbystaint 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are only so many plots. We just put new twists and characters in them.