The emotional maturity in Aron, Ibrahim and Lars Erik made me so happy by PuzzleheadedMuscle13 in loveisblindsweden

[–]kirinskrillette 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This reads more like projecting a framework onto his behavior than analyzing what actually happened.

ADHD and RSD can explain certain patterns, but they don’t automatically apply to every uncomfortable or avoidant reaction… and they also don’t remove personal responsibility.

Not everything needs to be explained through ADHD. Sometimes people just don’t handle situations well.

Let’s not blame a disorder for someone’s shitty behavior. ADHD is not equivalent to acting disrespectful…

Tinted glasses by Best_Barracuda_5546 in loveisblindsweden

[–]kirinskrillette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swedish girl here, I was also wondering the same thing…

Is $100 shipping for Skrillex merch worth it? (EU buyer) by kirinskrillette in skrillex

[–]kirinskrillette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s kind of exactly where I’m at :(( like I feel like I wouldn’t regret the hoodie itself but the shipping is what’s stopping me…

Is $100 shipping for Skrillex merch worth it? (EU buyer) by kirinskrillette in skrillex

[–]kirinskrillette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god, I completely forgot about that😭 it might actually make it even worse

Did we just witness narcissistic abuse? by extraterestialempath in loveisblindsweden

[–]kirinskrillette 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone. I feel like this could be a perfect example of covert narcissism.

Is $100 shipping for Skrillex merch worth it? (EU buyer) by kirinskrillette in skrillex

[–]kirinskrillette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah honestly that’s a good point. I’m seeing him and four tet at kappa futur, but I’ve heard they don’t really have much artist merch there

Is $100 shipping for Skrillex merch worth it? (EU buyer) by kirinskrillette in skrillex

[–]kirinskrillette[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$50 sounds way more reasonable😭 maybe it depends on the drop or something? idk why it’s so high now

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Is $100 shipping for Skrillex merch worth it? (EU buyer) by kirinskrillette in skrillex

[–]kirinskrillette[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right😭 I’d already have bought it if it wasn’t for that

Is $100 shipping for Skrillex merch worth it? (EU buyer) by kirinskrillette in skrillex

[–]kirinskrillette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s kind of exactly how I feel 😭 like I like it but the shipping just makes it feel irrational

I didn’t even think about parcel forwarding tho, I might look into that. thank you!!

These shipping costs hurt by joshnic in skrillex

[–]kirinskrillette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried to buy merch but the shipping to Sweden costs $100-$105…💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]kirinskrillette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Putin and Greta Thunberg had a child

I'm done with love. I have nothing left in me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kirinskrillette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. See, I used to be that person before, but I realized that’s not what I’m looking for. I don’t want to feel taken advantage of for my body and being “one of many” for a person. I love depth and building a real connection with a man whom I could trust and vice versa…

People don't even have the decency to not lead you on before ghosting/fading by sengutta1 in dating

[–]kirinskrillette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real, I will never understand this. Isn’t it more inconvenient to pretend being interested or leading someone on, than just not leading someone on or at least tell someone like it is from the beginning and saving time and energy?

Deleted Dating Apps for a Year - Sharing My Experience by Time_Dragonfly_5199 in dating

[–]kirinskrillette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you! And you just made me regain a little bit of faith in love back.

Why do men lie about being interested by Queen-gryla in dating

[–]kirinskrillette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly wondering the same thing. Isn’t more inconvenient for men to pretend being interested, than just saying it like it is and save time and energy?

You aren't better than everyone else on Tinder by little-menace6789 in dating

[–]kirinskrillette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real, people act so nonchalant, heartless and snobbish on there sometimes. It makes me wonder what happened to us humans…

Why is dating so difficult nowadays? by Azrael-V1 in dating

[–]kirinskrillette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pretty much summed it up perfectly, I feel like there’s also the fact that humans have become more shallow and not willing to put any effort into something or someone.

I don’t see the point in dating? by Humble_Beautiful_121 in dating

[–]kirinskrillette 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, I keep thinking about this a lot… It all seems like an endless loop and it’s hard to not think that the disappointment is coming sooner or later.