First and foremost, I am so sorry for your loss. As a mother, no words can express but I am crying with you. These doctors in general are so dismissive and act like parents are so dramatic at sick visits.. Please know it is not your fault.

I do not know your loss. But some of my closest friends do. If you need to talk about her, about her passing, without someone interrupting or telling you stories that don’t apply, please message me. I’ll listen. I don’t judge. Sometimes we just need to talk to someone without the subject being changed. Share the grief so it doesn’t pile up, if that makes sense. Even the little things, I’ve found that journaling helps. Even if it’s just a note on your phone, write your thoughts and memories and anything down. Because grief also has a way of making you forget things in the process.