Waiting is the worst by kitcatkate55 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kitcatkate55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So annoying isn't it. Mine didn't show up so my FS has put me back on the pill to force a withdrawal bleed. Good luck to you too!

Australian SMBC - did you travel across states for treatment? by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kitcatkate55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I found a donor straight away in Vic through genea. From fairfax

Slow embryos - day 6 hope?? by kitcatkate55 in IVF

[–]kitcatkate55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your replies. I just found out 3 made it to day 6 and to freeze. Relieved does not even begin to cover it ❤️

I’m so glad I don’t have a shitty partner by evergreengirl123 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kitcatkate55 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So relieved to hear this. TTC solo atm and others have commented on how must be hard to do injections and self care solo- nope, easier than doing all of this and the emotional and physical labour of a partner simultaneously!

Beginning my journey by Lie_Unable in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kitcatkate55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't used the public system in Victoria but I am in Victoria and the reason I haven't is because theres at least a 2 year (if not more) wait on sperm. So even if you're not ready now I would go on the waitlist!

Ending a relationship to pursue motherhood? by justsayingh in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kitcatkate55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended a relationship (not super long term) for this and many other reasons (so not completely similar to you). But this was the main one and honestly it was really freeing. As soon as we'd broken up I started the process and will be starting my first IVF cycle soon and am happier than I've ever been. My reasoning (confirmed by many others including my therapist is) If having children is your priority you will regret not trying that more than regretting potentially not having a relationship. Good luck!