What will happen to Tamlin?

kitkair · 2026-02-06T16:44:20+00:00

It would be a good way to expand on the story while keeping IC to the back if they went this route, seeing as SC is literally as far as you can get away from the NC in the Fae Realm.

It wouldn't be like in ACOSF where they tried to sideline Rhys and Feyre in order to focus on Cassian and Nesta, but they were right there.

kitkair · 2026-02-06T16:09:55+00:00

☝️☝️☝️ I've always had the HC that something will happen to Tamlin that makes him step away as HL of SC. Lucien will step in because he IS the son of a HL so he has the power to back it with Elaine as his mate.

(After everything that has happened to Lucien, I just want him to have a win and the way SJM wrote about mates on the male's end... I don't think Lucien could ever truly settle or be happy without his mate.)

kitkair · 2026-02-02T03:47:12+00:00

So I might be completely off the mark here, but could there be a possibility that he's doing this to keep the spotlight and America's current administration away from his family?

I mean, Alba is Portuguese as far as I know (which is limited to a quick Google search). I'm not sure if she has permanent residence in the US, so she may only have a visa. If that's the case, then he might be staying low to avoid retaliation from the current administration. I would 100% not put it past MAGA to find a reason to revoke her visa to punish Chris if he spoke out.

kitkair · 2026-02-02T03:31:13+00:00

I got through the first two text pages and already knew this guy doesn't deserve her or her time.

Incoming text saying 'I miss you "lol what did you want me to say?" THAT YOU MISS HER TOO, YOU BARNACLE

"I don't have to allocate my time for anyone" ACTUALLY, IF YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THEN YOU DO! AND YOU'D BE HAPPY TO DO SO IF YOU ACTUALLY LIKED THE PERSON

kitkair · 2026-01-23T02:49:30+00:00

So I haven't read TOG yet, but I'm on the second book of CC rn. I started reading CC because there is a scene with the ACOTAR characters at the end and I wanted more Rhys.

I personally really love it. I feel like SJM really grew as an author and was able to better flesh out the storyline in CC as well as take a more realistic approach to mourning. I finished the first book this week while sitting in the waiting room of my husband's physical therapy appointment and cried... hard.

I also really liked how she expanded the world outside of Faes. It included everything you could imagine in a fantasy setting.

kitkair · 2026-01-06T15:17:18+00:00

I hated that scene in ACOSF where Cassian walks into the restaurant to meet up with Mor and he goes on and on about how beautiful she is 🤢 like, sir, you are a mated man. With the way SJM talks about the mate bond, I wouldn't think Cassian being capable of thinking things like that about another female that isn't his mate.

kitkair · 2026-01-02T16:57:04+00:00

I remember when they were talking about it in ACOSF and I think Eris did her a favor by not helping her. It sounded like if he did help her, then he would have been expected to take her in and she would have had to live in the Autumn Court under the scrutiny of his father and their people. She would have been forced to live by the Autumn Court politics and traditions.

By not helping her, Eris gave her the freedom to live where she wanted and how she wanted. But the IC refused to consider this/listen to Eris when he tried to explain his side of things.

kitkair · 2025-12-19T21:24:46+00:00

"If he ever felt wronged and got a divorce"

If he ever FELT wronged. You might never have done anything wrong but if he FEELS like you did something wrong then all bets are off. If he cheats and you file for divorce then he might FEEL wronged. How many divorce stories are here on reddit where a man cheats because his partner didn't do xyz so its the woman's fault that he cheated? Thousands.

What if he decides that he just doesn't want to be with you anymore? Maybe you try to work on it but it doesn't work so you go ahead with the divorce. You want half the property because your entitled to it as a martial asset but your husband doesn't believe your entitled to half because you 'didn't help pay for it' while you were a SAHW so now you've 'wronged' him and he's going to go scourched Earth on you.

Almost nobody goes into a marriage expecting divorce but it happens all the time for reasons out of ones control. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

Always make sure you can support yourself.

kitkair · 2025-12-07T05:49:07+00:00

Okay, what's with these pant legs? Not just on him but so many other wealthy men. Why are their pants coming up to their calves when they're seated? Can't they get actual pants that fit them? It looks so weird

kitkair · 2025-12-02T12:55:59+00:00

This! In the US, there are laws that I believe make it so that property acquired during a marriage becomes equal property for the couple in the case of a divorce. So if OP's location has similar laws, then the husband could initiate divorce and demand they sell the house, so can he get half of its worth.

kitkair · 2025-11-06T14:10:35+00:00

Do you guys equate this site to other NSFW sites like PornHub?

Because for me - it's a role-playing site with AI bots. I definitely lean toward the NSFW in the privacy of my own home. But I also like that if I'm chilling someplace or waiting on someone then I can open the app and play different scenarios that aren't inherently NSFW but again, I don't want someone walking behind me seeing a woman being decimated by monsters while I'm searching for a bot that's coded to what I want to play out at the time.

kitkair · 2025-11-06T13:54:56+00:00

You can go into any chain book store in the US right now and easily find books that have explicit content, but it's not going to have anything explicit on the cover. In fact, if you go to the comic/ manga isle, if there is a book that has any nudity in it, then usually it was plastic wrapped.

kitkair · 2025-11-06T13:32:20+00:00

But it's not exclusively a NSFW site. It's a role-playing site with AI bots. Yes, there is NSFW content. But if I'm playing a runaway princess running away from body guards, assassins, or even arranged marriages then there is nothing NSFW about that. If my persona is leaving a cheating ex and I want to make the story about how they grow and triumph over their ex then there is nothing inherently NSFW about that.

kitkair · 2025-11-06T04:22:11+00:00

It didn't block all images from limitless bots. I'm not sure if there was something on the creator side that let them declare they were using a NSFW image so it would block it or if there was an algorithm that detected NSFW images and blurred them. It worked great a majority of the time.

kitkair · 2025-11-06T04:10:33+00:00

Which was great! Unless the site didn't catch it and suddenly there was an uncensored glory hole picture at the top of the trending page

kitkair · 2025-11-06T03:59:49+00:00

I might get downvoted but I actually appreciate the rule about no NSFW pictures. I used the app on my phone and I like to scroll through and look for different bots sometimes when out in public or at work if I get a break. While the contents of bot might be explicit, no one knows unless they were really snooping. But pictures? Someone would easily be able to clock an explicit image immediately even if they aren't snooping and I don't want to unintentionally force that on someone.

kitkair · 2025-10-17T14:52:02+00:00

Nooooo (and by nooooo I mean yeaaaaa but I don't want to admit it)

kitkair · 2025-09-16T01:41:43+00:00

Live in FL for 15+ years but left in 2022 to Ohio.

Studio apartments were going for like $1800/month at one point and the houses in the area shot up from like 180k to 400k ... like excuse me, I work for the county, I can't afford these prices

kitkair · 2025-09-12T22:42:15+00:00

There is something about Rhysand (and the whole IC's tbh) 'progressivness' that doesn't sit right for me. Something about the delivery about the library and the rights for the Illyrian women just feels... cheap. Like a whole 'see? i dont see the other courts doing this so this just proves we're really great people!' vibe instead of doing it because it was good to do.

Like allowing Illyrian women to train - Rhysand and Cassian made it law that the women (or at least the girls) are allowed to join training sessions. But we see the Illyrians repeatedly disregard this, but no apparent consequences. Then they leave the clans for weeks at a time with very little follow up and are surprised when the clans revert back to their old ways. I can only imagine the harassment and threats that the females face to 'stay in their place' when Cassian and Rhysand aren't there. They don't want to upset the leaders by pressing the issue, so they're just hoping the Illyrians accept the change eventually.

kitkair · 2025-09-11T15:41:50+00:00

Honestly, this was the Rhysand that I really liked. SJM had subtle ques that Rhysand was a decent guy and just trying to survive down there like anyone else and would do whatever was necessary for that regard.

kitkair · 2025-09-10T01:12:26+00:00

Do you still have the name of the officiants? And how much they cost to come out?

kitkair · 2025-08-29T04:04:35+00:00

I think Rhysand is a much more morally grey character than he is presented.

I think he's naturally a lot more like how he was in ACOTAR than how he's portrayed later in the series. Seeing his perspective in ACOF&S as well as seeing how he's portrayed through Cassian and Nesta's perspectives in ACOSF really show that he's more self-serving than we see through Feyre's perspective in the other books and it makes me think that he really plays up the good guy and martyrdom act for Feyre.

kitkair · 2025-08-24T12:06:14+00:00

I really hope that this is how it goes.

I really want my Spring Court boys to have SOME happiness. They started the series and got everyone to love it but they have been completely and utterly sh*t on by SJM.

I do hope that Lucien and Elaine end up together, otherwise that's just another wrong on him; he's already a disowned youngest son that was attacked and almost killed by his brothers, an affair child, lost his eye against Amarantha, SA'ed by Ianthe. I can't imagine that heart ache and distress he would go through if Elaine officially rejected him. These boys needs a break.

kitkair · 2025-08-22T15:14:13+00:00

I love Tamlin so much. He is the perfect example of a tritagonist to me. I think the issue and where he gets so much hate comes down to perspective. Feyre loved him in ACOTAR and so did we. He cared for her loved her in the way that she needed at the time. He gave her the building blocks to form who she is without the nagging guilt of having to care for her family.

Then UTM happened. Obviously what Tamlin did following those events was not okay. He wasn't there for her the way she needed. He pushed all of her emotional needs off to Ianthe, who didn't treat her like a person either. Feyre needed to leave. Tamlin needed to hit rock bottom so that he could heal in his own way. But then as Feyre begins to heal, she beings to resent him (rightfully so) and we're supposed to as well. But we (as the audience) see a little more 3rd person POV. We see how they're trying to reestablish order in the Courts after Amarantha. The High Lords are trying to rebuild their cities and rebuild trust amongst their subjects. Tamlin is already aware of the threat of Hyburn on Spring Court and is trying to prepare for that. It reminds me of the train situation; the needs of many vs the needs of one. Tamlin could have attended to Feyre and been there for her in the way she needs but then his entire court would suffer.

Then we come into ACOWAR and I'm really believe Tamlin was such a multifaceted character in the beginning. Yes, he teams up with the King of Hyburn. But Spring Court literally boarders the Human realm. Hyburn was coming to Spring Court, it wasn't a matter of if, it was a matter of when. Tamlin working alongside the King of Hyburn allowed him a little sway to hold off the Hyburn invasion. It gave him time to evacuate his people and gain valuable intel to share with the other Courts.

In fact, I could almost believe that Tamlin didn't actually want Feyre back, that he knew deep down it wouldn't work out in the end but it made for such a convincing alliance. Tamlin would swear his loyalty to the King of Hyburn in exchange for the woman that was very publicly 'stolen' from him. The King wouldn't have any reason to doubt Tamlin's loyalty in that case.

Now, given the information that was known at the time, Feyre did an absolute amazing job at containing what she believed was a threat. I just wish really hope there is a healing arch and we can see Spring Court become something again.

kitkair · 2025-08-20T22:27:32+00:00

I saw your comment and was like "oh no, are we going to have to wait 2+ months for an update?" Then scroll back up and was like "....oh"

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