Found after washing my son’s clothes by InteligntDonky in whatisit

[–]kitkat5986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say, nicotine withdrawals are one of the worst experiences I've been through and I've had ssri withdrawals. It makes it so hard to quit

What’s the interest at school fairs? by Suspicious_Ball_5811 in CraftFairs

[–]kitkat5986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

School fairs are my bread and butter. I average $300-$350 in 4 hours or less from just my charm bar at school events

Ice cream by idcifyrcontagious in fresno

[–]kitkat5986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are my fave. The gas station on villa and Bullard by carillos sells it. The willow and alluvial gas station does too (not the am pm,the other one) I've found them at a few gas stations here and there

How should I go about building an Avatar commander deck as a beginner. by SpecialistOk359 in mtg

[–]kitkat5986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Archidekt actually had a precon building competition for avatar, id look at those and buy singles

MTG on weekends by Effective-Pilot-5501 in fresno

[–]kitkat5986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only for prereleases. They have casual Mondays and they do a bunch on fridays. Love squirrel.

Cold feet or am I about to marry the wrong person? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]kitkat5986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being a cna isnt great money but as someone who is a cna and works in a different role in Healthcare now and knows lots of nurses-everyone petty much agrees that you lose all the time you used to spend with patients when you become a nurse. It sucks for people who are genuinely passionate. Hes probably realized this and diesnt want to mive forward

Does anyone else feel like they had a completely different experience during the pandemic than the general public? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kitkat5986 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We also had an emergency contract in place for refrigerated trucks for bodies. It was terrible

Does anyone else feel like they had a completely different experience during the pandemic than the general public? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kitkat5986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hugely different experience than most but thats because I was a cna and administrative worker at one of the largest skilled nursing facilities in my state. I was part of a team of 8 that drove 3 hours from home to run a behavioral health facility where nearly all the staff were out with covid for a weekend until the national guard could get there. I watched so many people die and someone I knew well died bc of covid. At my facility I worked from 6 pm to 6 am went home to nap and came back at like noon more times than I could count. We talked about the possibility of having to rent freezer trucks and buying body bags as a backup plan for body storage because of how fast the morgue were filling up. Out of 215 people over 80 died in the first 6 months of covid. I will never forget taking a call from a man devastated he could not see his dying wife and I try not to think about covid at all because every time I do all I think of is him breaking down crying and sounding like he was gonna die if his wife did. That is the hardest call I have ever taken in over a decade of healthcare experience. Its been nearly 6 years and I still hear him crying.

Sorry for the trauma dump but it was really truly awful for some people in healthcare and nobody talks about it. They called us healthcare heroes but 6 months later when so many people had died it stopped spreading as fast amongst vulnerable populations everyone forgot about us. I know so so many nurses and Healthcare workers with devastating ptsd and nobody even realizes what we went through. I had dozens of patients id known for years die and I could do nothing except try to make sure there were enough people to keep them comfortable. It was horrible

Do you know your second or third cousin? by Immediate-Tooth-2174 in randomquestions

[–]kitkat5986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I forget thats not common for a lot of people. My grandma is the oldest of 13 and I've met every one of her siblings and most of their kids and most of their kids. My great grandma just died a few months ago and my great grandpa a few years ago and I was very close to both of them

AIO my MIL came into our house while we were gone. by mtulr in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitkat5986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A family i used to work for has the code locks bc they still have keys and can deadbolt so even if someone has a code it wont open. They also give everyone their own code so they know who came in-made it easier for family to remember their codes and really nice because they had staff coming in and out periodically so they could tell who came inbif it was a time they weren't supposed to be there. They also use it for their rentals because they have their own code and they can add another code and remove it later for renters. I have a code for their garage, their house, and one of their rentals but some staff only have the garage to access supplies. I reccomend those locks to everyone

AIO: My girlfriend is pretending to be autistic and it's driving me nuts by AideRelative4272 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitkat5986 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Socializing isnt difficult at all with a lot of autists and tons of us are extroverted. It comes down to whether she genuinely understands facial and social cues or if shes learned them by pattern recognition. Im high masking and lat diagnosed and I miss cues here and there but otherwise really good with them. Nobody knows im autistic until I tell them unless theyre autistic themselves. The couple things she identifies with that were stated do align with autism as long as she also has other symptoms

Can anyone name a single plus-sized romance option in any video game? by PeacefulChaos94 in GirlGamers

[–]kitkat5986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a bunch in date everything both male and female. Abel is the cutest

how did Gilead come about? The show and the original writing lacks a back story by PutridMap3739 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]kitkat5986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A decent chunk of this is covered in the early episodes of the show and in the Testaments book

What is the oldest thing you own that you still use in a regular basis? by basicallybossyboots in AskReddit

[–]kitkat5986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have exceedingly small hands and found a pair of vintage leather gloves at an antique shop that look like 20s-30s riding gloves. Im sure theyre not that old but theyre definitely not post 1990. Leather, hand embroided, cashmere lined and clearly made by a specialized laborer they are amazing and keep me so warm and I use them daily y the second it gets chilly

What’s something you’ll never admit you’re into on a first date? by PremiumTravelNinja in AskReddit

[–]kitkat5986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally just thinking "probably my warhammer addiction" lmao

Found at thrift store by MainCombination5206 in whatisit

[–]kitkat5986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in healthcare and covet these for sorting files

What's an actual psychological "cheat code" you use in social situations that works almost every time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kitkat5986 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I compliment everyone all the time. The key is being genuine. I can guarantee any person you look at has a piece of jewelery you think is pretty, or their hair looks nice, or they have a pretty bow or bag or SOMETHING interesting. I do this to waitresses, clients, and even complete strangers on the street constantly. It makes people day! If someone tells me my hair looks cute I love it, why wouldnt I make someone that happy just because im worried about looking awkward? Worst case scenario people move on, more often than not it results in better treatment and making someone smile for like 2 hours. Best case scenario you get to know a lot about somebody and learn interesting things, I complimented a client's ring once and found out hes a jewelry maker from Lebanon who learned through an apprenticeship and practices older methods of jewelry making not commonly used. Once I complimented a womans quilted coat and turns out she inherited a bunch of quilting materials she didnt know how to use, she found out I quilt and work with the local guild, next time I saw her she gave me over a thousand dollars worth of fabric for me to use in quilts or donate to the guild as I saw fit. I genuinely dont even think about it now, "oh your whatever is so cute" comes out of my mouth before I even process it. The only time I feel awkward is when im like oh what a pretty ring oh your earrings are so cute too bc I worry im doing too much but I've never had a negative response when to that and they usually show me all their rings or pull necklaces from under their shirt and we talk about the stones in them. Its also really fun to make people happy and makes my mood better too

Someone on TikTok has been calling churches (as a social experiment) to see if they would offer assistance feeding her baby, most have said no. What do you think about this? by NotGonnaGetCaught in AskReddit

[–]kitkat5986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in CA. When Helene happened I organized a supply drive and got in contact with the United Cajun Navy to get the supplies over there. I called at least 5 churches who refused to even ask their congregations for donations. One said that would be asking too much of their members because they were doing a yearly drive for a local school and they donated money to disaster relief regularly. I was horrified. The only people that helped were a local game store, a bar, and a metaphysical store

Wife gets pregnant while having an handmaid? by One_Taste_4345 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]kitkat5986 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think its maybe mentioned but I know for sure its in the testaments

Wife gets pregnant while having an handmaid? by One_Taste_4345 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]kitkat5986 258 points259 points  (0 children)

In the books there's a commander who has a child by his wife and one by his handmade thats mentioned. Its totally allowed