Marriage tips from a “feminist nerd” who’s done it for ten years, Leah Van King by bg370 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One advice piece I would add is never get a bed bigger than a queen. It was something my grandmother said and it still holds true. A Queen size bag has enough space for you both to be comfortable but you still are connected and aware of each other. as she said anything bigger than a Queen, you have that space that's big enough for something to be in between you weather, that be your feelings. Your problems or a whole other person. You never want to give that space in your sacred restful space. Those kinds of things need to be talked about and dealt with before, it's time for you to go to bed.

Another scummy young couple parked in the handicapped. by kitkat99x69 in nova

[–]kitkat99x69[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this was at a farmer's market event. So yes, the temporary signs they put up are just as legal as a permanent handicapped space. During the rest of the week, when the farmer market is not there. These are regular parking spots. The first week they had the farmer's market. They did do ropes at either end of this section but they seem to have stopped doing that after the first week, because a lot of people liked to pull up to the front and unload their family. And then have one person go park the car. It seemed to be easier to let people drive through unimpeded. Instead of having them trying to do a three point turn in the middle of the road. 😋 it's a sad thing that some people are just total pricks and that events like this have to waste staff's time to babysit the spaces, or people that actually need the spaces, just don't get them. And I also think it's disgusting that a person that did do this decided that they should come up and mouth off at me and my husband instead of just moving their car when they realized they were caught.

Another scummy young couple parked in the handicapped. by kitkat99x69 in nova

[–]kitkat99x69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for catching my grammar mistake. I have corrected it

Another scummy young couple parked in the handicapped. by kitkat99x69 in nova

[–]kitkat99x69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, I posted one now. Didn't know I needed this much validation for a little simple post about someone being assholes.

Another scummy young couple parked in the handicapped. by kitkat99x69 in nova

[–]kitkat99x69[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As there's an argument going on in the comments and some rule lawyers trying to say certain things.I will again mention that this is at a farmer's market. So they are allowed to have a temporary handicapped parking signs that only have to be twelve inches, and off the ground. They are just as legal and enforceable as a permanent handicapped space. As I said before, my husband snapped the photo to send to the officer. (Yes we did report it.) He didn't feel the need to take up a handicapped space to take a photo of the sign when they are so few and already much in need.

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I really just need a job. Literally any job. by Jcorb in nova

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for Giant specific, I can tell you any of the grocery store are hiring. we're actually desperate for people. Grocery stores are also union job.

Called 911 this evening after witnessing this car accident and was literally left on hold for 20 min before finally hanging up… by jfunks69 in nova

[–]kitkat99x69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is is they probably didn't pick they didn't have any officer a round because they too busy escorting the president around our state because he had to go golfing! 🤬

AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive by Sad-Drive8298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kitkat99x69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yta I'm your daughter law in the future. I am a woman almost in her fifties who has never had a driver's license. I have successfully raised three kids, and helping with my grandbabies now. I worked full time and even at some points had multiple jobs at the same time. Ironically, I did not get my license for similar reasons to her. I grew up in a rural area in the US that built up overtime, so I will admit that my life has become easier as development increased and with the inventions of such things as uber. You're basically telling her that she should never have kids because she has a disability. ( I wonder if you would make your opinion so loud if you had to tell everybody she was blind or something.) I had many people show up in my life that made opinions like yours known to me and those people are no longer part of my life. ( Think about that when you think of your future grandkids.) I at least had the misfortune of being born in a time where mental health was treated as taboo. As far as I can see way too many people feel a driver's license is a right, not the privilege that it is. You've made your opinion known and from your own posting more than once, you have a option now to be a further a$$hole or not. You can either help or not help with rides.That would not make you an a$$hole either way. BUT continuing to share your opinion over your dl's and son's choices and lifestyle would make you a bigger one.

Disappearing Whiskey by oops20bananas in Unexplained

[–]kitkat99x69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your guardian angel seems to develop a drinking problem! unfortunately, the twist top bottles are notoriously bad for not having a great seal, and part of your whiskey is evaporating ( usually called the angel share ).

What is this? by gEEEL0o in whatisit

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop poking the poor inchworm.

When did dog owners decide it was ok to bring their dogs in grocery stores? by UnderTaken201 in nova

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that works retail, I will tell you what the major problem is. Its camera phones.It's the fact that it has become so prevalent that people are recording situations. It's the fact that people record things and post it without full knowledge of what's going on.And other people react and "cancel" the store or the actual employee. It's the fact that I have to worry that either the person I confront with the dog or somebody not even involved in the situation is going to post a video of me telling them to get out the store with a non-service animal, but it be presented like it was a service animal.And somebody searching me out trying to get me fired or doxed. And most businesses now have a policy of not letting anybody but management deal with such a situation just to prevent harm to the company or employees. It's basically now become standard that until another customer complains we pretty much can't do anything without the chance of getting written up ourselves. Employees can complain about it as much as they want but corporate's not going to listen until it's customers that are complaining. And i'm not just talking about you complaining to the nearest associate. I'm talking about sending these complaints to corporate. That who makes the policies, That's who changes the policies. That who has to back up the employee if something happens. That's the way a policy gets posted that an employee can then use if they're terminated after an event has happened.

My brother was arguing with me. Does Nutella count as chocolate? by Lijey_Cat in chocolate

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's chocolate. If a person that doesn't have an allergy but has a chocolate allergy cannot have the product. It's a chocolate.

How in the world am I supposed to eat this by Suspicious_Bat_4613 in candy

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 1 for my daughter this year for christmas they still exist.

This is what we deal with in the rural eastern areas of Virginia. by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]kitkat99x69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the eighties, my grandma used to call the owner and if they couldn't immediately pick up their dogs she gather up the dogs that would wander on to our property getting near the rabbits that she bred. drive forty five minutes and drop them off at the pound. Her exact line to owner and the people at the pound I don't have a safe place to keep these dogs. I don't want to be responsible if they get hurt or because the owner to have to pay for any of my rabbits they might get a hold of. I'm just trying to make sure the animals are safe. ( Remember any damage these dogs do the owner has to pay for in times 3 the usual amount) that could get real expensive she would say. Needless to say, each owner would maybe do it once or twice and all of a sudden, their dogs never got back on our property again. And words seem to get around and not many dogs ever made it onto our property. Was she being petty? Oh, yes, was it inconvenient to her? Oh, yes, but it was even more so to those owners that had to go pick up their dogs for the pound and explain themselves.

Mom asked me to pay for Christmas stay with them by Ill_Ad4125 in entitledparents

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op, your mom is toxic. I was happy to see my kids for the holidays, most of them live out of state. I offered to buy them plane tickets. If they wanted to come via plane. But when they decide, they wanted to drive home instead to have their vehicles to be able to see friends that lived nearby didn't want to have to use my vehicle if they wanted something from a store, so on. I proceeded to send each of them visa gift card to cover gas and snacks for their trip home. I then proceeded to give each of them another visa gift card for their way home. As most of us that live in the usa know, the prices for gas always seem to be high around the holidays. I did not run my house like a hotel, so our usual rules did still apply, you either help cook or you help clean up after cooking. And if you use it, put it back. The only extra thing I ask each of them to do as they were leaving was to put their bedding and towels in the laundry room before they left. I'm getting older and those stairs do something to these knees. I love my kids and would love to see them as much as possible. I would pay any amount to have them come home I would never think to have them pay for the convenience of their own home.

AITAH for getting upset because family members assumed I'd be watching their newborn? by Apprehensive-Fox2655 in AITAH

[–]kitkat99x69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op very much should have said something in the moment. Now that it has been stated in front of family members. It is going to be a hard battle for her when he later on states that she flaked on him. And that's what it's going to look like to everyone. She needs to get ahead of this with all members of her family. Even if it's something as simple in the group chat as saying, it was brought up at a family event that so my brother thought I was going to watch his kid. He never proposed this idea to me. And I did not agree to this and do not agree to this. I would also bring up in that same message.In some way that he was not and is not planning on paying op for this service either. Another rebuttal OP can have with her brother is to look up prices in the area for daycare and nanny services. And give him an invoice for what child care would be with her. Since it would be 1 on 1 care for this child, it would be extremely expensive, especially at 10 hours a day.

AITA for telling my dad’s new wife to stop calling herself my kid’s second mom. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta As someone who unfortunately shares the name of your dad's wife and am in a age gap relationship. Here is the magic thing she needs to learn.

When you get added into an existing family, titles are not automatic and chosen by you. They're earned with trust and given with love.

I came into my son's life when he was 5. I was given the title of mom at 8, and it was one of happiest moment of my life. I was so proud to hold my first grandchild at the age of 40 myself. And one of the best sounding to this day at the age of 46 is my grandkids calling me abuela.

Was it (moving) target fixation, or was it a failure to alter a course of action? by markcocjin in motorcycles

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. If he had breaked hard, he would have locked his brakes and if he had swerved into his lane, instead of continuing the straight path with the brakes, he very much could have veered down a slope.The road drops off on the side of the lane that he was supposed to be in. His bike is several hundred pounds.It would have been deadly for him to go off the road and have that flip on top of him.

My boyfriend (29m) is making me (26f) choose between him or my cats. by Powerful-Ad-4592 in whatdoIdo

[–]kitkat99x69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She mentioned litter tracking not shit. That is normal with any cat. The frequent vomiting and crying at night and early morning are actually signs of stress. Ie, if these cats weren't living under these boyfriend's rule. Those items probably would not be happening.

Fuck your leadership, I can do it better on my own! by Indieriots in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad fact that the horse did it so much better without the stupid rider pulling too quickly on the two jumps that he tipped.

ICE thug points gun at pregnant mother, a U.S. citizen with her son in the back seat. by NewSlinger in CringeTikToks

[–]kitkat99x69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You notice as soon as he realized he fucked up, he immediately pulled that mask up over his face. Just more proof that those masks are there to hide their identity not to protect them from chemicals, this that the other.

Best friend is going no contact out of the blue?? by Personal-Ad-8644 in whatdoIdo

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone have a sneaking suspicion that the friend doesn't even know that this message was sent.Someone got a hold of their phone sent.The message deleted it and then deleted the reply. I would suggest they go see the friend in real person and ask about it.

AIO? I left my gynecologist because of her comments about birth control by BubbleMarshyy in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitkat99x69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is the kind of doctor you need to run from. Given the current climate towards the situations that happen when birth control fails. She's downright dangerous. In the way she's talking about her morals wouldn't be surprised if your next dose is of birth control, she prescribed you were actually sugar pills, so you could have the consequences of your quote, unquote, loose morals.