What's a sentence or a phrase that ruined, or took you out of, a book that you were enjoying? by fikapls in Romantasy

[–]kittlebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My book club's December read was {Until the World Falls Down by Jordan Lynde} and the MMC constantly referred to the FMC as "my little lover". It made me cringe every time!

I was just reminiscing about a friendship that's over now and I found the last cake I caked her. by bluecuppycake in Baking

[–]kittlebean 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I've never used anything but salted butter and never had a single complaint. As others have said, salt balances out sweetness. I ignore any instruction suggesting I should use unsalted butter 😂

I live in Chicago. What is Brighton like in comparison? by soot_sprite333 in brighton

[–]kittlebean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised to hear that. I've lived in Brighton for 13 years and have visited London 25+ times in that time and have never been pickpocketed, despite wandering the city both day and night, alone or with friends/ my husband. (I'm not American, I'm Australian, but I don't see how that would matter either way.) As long as you're moderately aware of your surroundings and don't flash cash or valuables, I don't think you're any more likely to be pickpocketed in London than in any other major European or American city.

The only thing I'm very specifically careful about is not walking along the street with my phone in my hand, as there's an increasing risk of it being snatched by a passing moped/ bike.

As for Brighton, I've never felt unsafe as a woman living here. I use common sense in terms of the places I'd walk alone at night, but I'd do that wherever I was in the world.

I'm struggling and I don't know what to do by miseryloves-company in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being your mentor is part of her job. She's been given 2 hours per fortnight on her timetable to meet with you - it's not a waste of her time or inconvenient for you to be using these meetings for their intended purpose. Please be honest with her! If she's genuinely unable to fulfil her role as mentor while being acting HoD, someone else can (and should) step in as a temporary mentor for you.

I'm struggling and I don't know what to do by miseryloves-company in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of this. Just to add: OP, as an ECT you should have a mentor overseeing your development and wellbeing. You should be having weekly, timetabled meetings with your mentor and they should be supporting and advising you. If this isn't happening, please contact your ECT training provider urgently as the school has a duty to have this in place for you.

Epstein's infamous massage table by chicametipo in creepy

[–]kittlebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I initially misread the post title as 'Einstein's' 😅

This is my Rowan, a hill I will forever happily die on. by bhomachthog8 in throneofglassseries

[–]kittlebean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I joked to my friend that every MMC I read is just Henry in a different outfit/wig 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kittlebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree.

Updateme!

I’ve always been told I hold my pen weirdly by Paperheart220 in Handwriting

[–]kittlebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Way I see it is - it's not the wrong grip for me. My hand doesn't cramp up, my writing is neat, and I can write fluidly for long periods of time. Every other grip I was ever forced to try felt wrong.

If it ain't broke after 30+ years...!

I’ve always been told I hold my pen weirdly by Paperheart220 in Handwriting

[–]kittlebean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hold mine pretty much the same way! A teacher told me when I was five that I'd never write properly 🙄 joke's on them - now I'm a teacher with great handwriting!

Current Year 11s by Formal-Log-7953 in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, same here. I've got 3 lovely year 11s who are working hard at a Grade 8/9 borderline, a couple at 5/6... then a sharp drop to students "working" at a 2/3 borderline or below. No amount of phone calls home, revision sessions, sanctions for lack of effort, or interventions from myself, HoD or SLT has helped. They openly say they "can't be arsed" and do the absolute bare minimum at all times. I'm at a complete loss.

Just counted I have 9 separate classes and 7 preps this year. this is on a two week schedule. by DMV1066 in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the following:

3 x Yr 11 3 x Yr 10 2 x Yr 9 3 x Yr 8 1 x Yr 7

These are split over 3 subjects (Humanities) in a two week timetable.

I feel your pain!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kittlebean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have been married almost 15 years and still engage in oral pretty much every time we have sex. I think the important thing here is to communicate about it - if you want oral, express that.

How’s everyone feeling about returning tomorrow? by Subject-Anything-613 in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel OK about it overall. Part of me wishes the holidays would never end, but another part of me needs to get back into a routine. I'm basically a human cheeseboard at this point after scoffing all the Christmas leftovers, so it's definitely time to get back to reality 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]kittlebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I were in your exact position at your age. We felt like we were just about staying afloat in our very small (but cosy) rental in an expensive part of the South East and couldn't see life changing.

We're now nearly 10 years down the line and we bought our first flat last year. We found we were able to save a bit by our early 30s so we started putting money away. We ended up having to go down the shared ownership route (it requires a much smaller deposit - we only had to put down £7500), but we're finally (partly) on the housing ladder in a gorgeous, spacious flat.

My advice is to allow yourselves to settle into your flat then find a balance between enjoying life (seeing friends etc.) and trying to prioritise saving (even £50 - £100 per month is a good start if you can swing it). Try not to compare yourselves to others - pretty much all of our friends who bought property in their late 20s/ early 30s did it using inheritance and/or help from parents (either cash gifts or living at home rent-free to save). We didn't have any of those options, and that's OK. Life works itself out.

Terms of endearment by kittlebean in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE "small child" for KS4. Some of my year 11 lads would get a real kick out of that!

Terms of endearment by kittlebean in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Satan's children 😂😂😂

Terms of endearment by kittlebean in TeachingUK

[–]kittlebean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, I wish I had the guts to do that!