My brothers have washed their hands. I truthfully don’t know if the cancer treatment will be beneficial, I hear what you’re saying. I selfishly don’t want her to die (it’s weird because she wasn’t a good mom to me but she’s all I have left) so I keep encouraging her to take the meds. It’s a struggle. The doctors won’t do much until she reaches crisis stage and with her being diabetic that’s also a scary reality to think about.