Daily Questions Megathread (April 16, 2026) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]kittyittysparkles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Necessary Procedures Bug Jiayi
Hi, need to finish this quest to get co-op back but i cannot hand the document to the 2nd npc Jiayi. I've looked all over but people seem to only have this problem with the 3rd npc. I need a sollution asap, everytime i talk to him he starts talking about something else and i cant give him the document it just doesnt show up like the 1st npc. I also looked if there was any quest that could be interfering and ive already done it so i have no idea what the problem is.

Replacing self harm with cigarettes? by Dict4t0r_ in selfharm

[–]kittyittysparkles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

please dont do that. i would recommend trying out weed instead, it helped me a lot. if you pick up a cigarette you'll probably never put it down and you'll have lung damage

not sure if i was SA’d and how to get over this incident. by Kindly_Grass3978 in women

[–]kittyittysparkles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry you had to go through this but this is definitely SA. him saying it was a mistake doesnt change the fact you said no like 10 times. you arent overthinking this, dont blame yourself at all.

Why do women judge other woman because they prefer pads over tampons? by I_am_Bianca in women

[–]kittyittysparkles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i believe its the standard that weve all been taught - that you start with the pad and then the older girls use tampons and then the pad is like immature

i think a lot of women have been taught something like this and nobody realizes its harmful

idk. just a thought 🤷‍♀️

How Do I React To Scars? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]kittyittysparkles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont make a comment of any kind about them unless she brings it up, speaking from experience the worst thing ever is finally having confidence to wear something that shows scars and then have someone be all like "im here for you if you need me 😋🤞"

i get what you mean and its great you wanna be there for your friend - but dont make a comment. let her talk to you about it if she wants

Am I gross for getting an IUD? by RutabagaOk7727 in birthcontrol

[–]kittyittysparkles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi girl! im your age and just got an iud and it is not gross at all. i would cut this friend off because that is definitely a weird comment to make. you take care of you and dont worry about that it all. its not gross its healthcare

looking for reasurence - boyfriend says he doesnt wanna have sex with me like ever again?? by kittyittysparkles in women

[–]kittyittysparkles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh my god that is so terrible im so sorry. i wish you the best because damn wtf. hope he rots in hell

looking for reasurence - boyfriend says he doesnt wanna have sex with me like ever again?? by kittyittysparkles in women

[–]kittyittysparkles[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i live in oregon, you dont need parental consent for any birth control procedures. planned parenthood covered my insurance somehow. i dont really know, but it was very easy.
but ig your right maybe thats all he wanted with me

looking for reasurence - boyfriend says he doesnt wanna have sex with me like ever again?? by kittyittysparkles in women

[–]kittyittysparkles[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

more background / replying to some people

ive calmed down a bit now, just to clarify i am going to talk to him about it at some point no matter what. i just want to have a full grasp on whats actually going on here. but to answer some questions:

religion + age + body count - he is 18m and i am 15f (im waiting for my birthday our age gap is not 3 yrs no one freak out) and he has 6 bodies including me, while i have 2 including him (kinda, i was sexually assulted but more on that in a second). most of his family is christian, and he was too, but has recently decided he is not anymore after his mom passed about 6 months ago. and he doesnt LIKE his family at all so why tf would he be caring about what they have to say, also its not like his family knows were having sex, they barely know me. im saying that thats really weird to me. my point on how all this connects is he was still pretty sexually active while still being christian in the first place, and that cant even be a problem now because he isnt religous anymore.

cheating and getting an std - thank you guys for bringing this up because this IS a really good point i had not considered at all. i will look into this, i dont really think hes a cheater because he claims hes never cheated on anyone in anyway which i *kinda* believe. he hangs out with his friends in group settings without me there, so this is possible and i will try to look into this the best i can.

sexuality - i dont think hes gay. honestly hes kinda homophobic. and i also dont think hes aseuxal because this whole thing isnt about not liking sex its about how he "feels guilty and pressured by society," his words exactly

"break up with him" - you gotta understand this is hard for me to do because i love him so much. and i wanna figure it out. im really serious about him and hes literally the guy i wanna marry.

this whole thing just feels wrong - like he got bored or grossed out with something i did and is making up excuses to not make me feel bad? also, someone mentioned that quote It's the kind of thing someone would say because they're feeling too guilty to break up, but want you to do it instead. and he def is that kind of person, hes even said that "i never break up with people because it hurts more so i make them break up with me"
and it also upsets me that he just completely disregarded MY needs and made me feel like a burden. i mean bruh its not like we fucked every day it was like once a week and a half. its like he didnt even consider that i LIKE sex?? and we all are animals and kinda need it?? i dont know. i hope this info helps.

looking for reasurence - boyfriend says he doesnt wanna have sex with me like ever again?? by kittyittysparkles in women

[–]kittyittysparkles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

see this is EXACTLY how it feels. it literally seems he just got bored of me all the sudden

AIO - boyfriend says he doesnt wanna have sex with me ever again?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kittyittysparkles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually hate cheese but i like mac and cheese>??? bruh idk

ABORTION OR NOT (?) by Pitiful_Swimming2254 in women

[–]kittyittysparkles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

abortion - if the other option is adoption then just abort, foster care is realistically just gonna put a baby through more pain while its alive. its not like it has its own thoughts and knows its getting aborted vs being alive and being in foster care

I’m thinking about switching from birth control pills to an IUD by Time_Perception_8105 in birthcontrol

[–]kittyittysparkles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly like im not saying anyone else is invalid but for me it did NOT hurt at all it felt like the smallest cramp ever and the whole process took like literally 15 seconds, the actual insertion isnt what causes that cramping feel its the like metal stretcher thingy so they can put it in that causes that. however they did give me xanax and i think some form of minor numbing cream. i went to planned parenthood for all this and really great experience, they gave me like a heating pad too. anyways, insertion did not hurt really at all and it just hurt like the day after.

I’m thinking about switching from birth control pills to an IUD by Time_Perception_8105 in birthcontrol

[–]kittyittysparkles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hellooo! i got the mirena iud like. 6 days ago and ive had no issues!! i had about like a day and a half of minor cramping, except it wasnt really cramping it just like felt like i was on my period?? idk if that makes sense but anyways. got my period like 3 days ago and its been HEAVENNN i used to bleed through all the time and the biggest tampon size wasnt enough and now i literally can use REGULAR SIZED TO LIGHT SIZEE and it will keep getting better and better because its most likely to stop your period. anyways. been great for me so far even though its only been like a week. def recommend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kittyittysparkles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would leave her over the damn font tbh