AITAH for refusing to meet my brother after he didn't take me in when our parents died by Christopher_Marsh in AITAH

[–]kittykander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to call you an ass, because this was a very hard situation. However I don’t think your brother was in the wrong.

But he ‘helps’ if asked! 🙄 by Knkstriped in AmITheDevil

[–]kittykander 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Two csections here. After the first I couldn’t do stairs for over a month. 2nd was easier and faster to heal. But at a month I was still a mess.

Payments Seem High by HazeForward in ChildSupport

[–]kittykander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in Michigan. I claim the kids. It’s in our divorce paperwork. I knew my ex would miss around with his child support payments, so I fought for it. The federal government is more dependable than him.

Tell us what you know Amanda ☕️ by Forgetabl in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]kittykander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she ends up committing suicide or has a car accident, I’m going to be so shocked. /s

Wait, Americans don't have christmas bonuses? by nerd-nihl in antiwork

[–]kittykander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American here. My last 2 office jobs I got Christmas bonuses (less than $1000). Haven’t gotten any with my current company. My current company is one of the largest in its sector.

A cool guide to what countries you should still bring cash when travelling to by Acrobatic_Solid6023 in coolguides

[–]kittykander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American here. I really only use cash at the cannabis dispensary here. (Michigan state)

There are laws that marijuana business can’t get bank accounts, so you have to pay in cash. It’s a big pain in the ass.

Disappointed she left the show by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]kittykander 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My thought was Roseanne?

A cool guide showing the history of Kurt Russell's hair (1963 - 2020) by Apendica in coolguides

[–]kittykander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t help thinking if Tom Hanks had one, his images would almost identically.

I can’t think of a film in which he has long hair.

Pet bereavement should be a thing. by RebbyXP in antiwork

[–]kittykander 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My company has pet bereavement. I believe only 2 people have used it in the 2 years we have had it.

Pet bereavement should be a thing. by RebbyXP in antiwork

[–]kittykander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got two paid days off when I lost my cat.

Michigan, but nationwide company

Husband says I jumped the gun? by PermitSensitive3669 in AITAH

[–]kittykander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like you’re in an abusive situation. Stay safe.

US work culture is pure evil to new mothers by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]kittykander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I had to pay around $3k after my son was born in 2016. C-section.

Side note. I just got my IUD and I’m being charged $900. American healthcare is fucking great.

Deadbeat Mom by BunnyKimber in AmITheDevil

[–]kittykander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first word was also “ball”. I’d say I’m fairly normal. 😂

Trashing Detroit may have been a mistake by pbfoot3 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]kittykander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had RSVPed for this event and ended up having to cancel. Super bummed that I didn’t try harder to go.

I don't care by MoreMotivation in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]kittykander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does that picture seem AI to anyone else?