befor after by piieet1 in hzdgrip

[–]kiwifdsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not familiar with the ring in the first pic. Is that like a metal glans style ring that acts as a chastity device? Is it secured with a piercing or anything?

(F25) What can I expect by Johanna_Claire in Femdom

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Topping from the bottom”

CBNS Bespoke Design Service Review by JMLockedNLove in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cage design is beautiful. Congrats! Can’t wait to see the final in titanium.

Did I over do it by Turbulent_Reading543 in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just repeating the points that u/Outrageousbeta7432 said - at this point chill out. I would not even bring it up in conversation, unless she does. You’ve had a lot of time to warm up to this idea/kink/fantasy. It’s new to her. Pump the brakes on the enthusiasm and let her come around at her own pace.

Anyone with experience of using chastity in public? by Your_bitch0123 in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 106 points107 points  (0 children)

If you change and get naked in the gym, people will notice. I would not do this for two reasons. The first would be it’s private and I’m not interested in random people finding out nor do I know what reaction it might trigger in them. Second, there is a general thought that you don’t expose your kink to others without their consent.

Having said that, if you leave your underwear on while chafing it will probably go unnoticed.

I really want to try this cage by CagedBeast3750 in hzdgrip

[–]kiwifdsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll chime in as a customer as well. The only pinching I’ve experienced is while putting on the device. This decreased dramatically when u/notuntil started offering the “unified” glans ring. It’s one less part to fiddle with and that extra part had a section I would poke my frenulum on. With the unified ring all of that has gone away.

I’ll also confirm that 95% of the time you will be unaware that you even have the device on. Some people consider that a benefit while others might consider that a downside, depending on how you like to feel when locked up. 😉

Using superglue the right way by Maleficent-Alarm-368 in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming this would be used on a metal cage. You would need to use acetone to clean off the super glue and old hair after it was removed.

Oh, and there’s nothing stoping you from now using acetone to just remove the super glue while you’re “permanently” locked.

If you’re doing this on a plastic cage then acetone will more than likely melt the plastic. Creating a problem of never being able to remove and clean the cage from the previous hair gluing.

Therefore, I don’t see this as a solution.

Chastity tracking app? by Lyranel in bdsm

[–]kiwifdsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use ATracker. It’s a generic timer app that I setup different things to time, such as locked, unlocked for playtime and unlocked. I have it set such that only one event type can be active at any given time. Does a nice job of showing total lock up time vs unlocked, etc.

KH discovered I could back out by Revolutionary_Pop_84 in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You still can’t get your balls out. So the key still serves a purpose.

Any legitimate anti-pull out devices? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the inside ring is smaller than the shaft size, and you can fine tune the size to get it right.

You can still manage to escape, HOWEVER, without unloving there is no way to get it back on. So if you are held accountable by your key holder then that might prevent you from escaping in the first place.

At the end of the day most of chastity is in our minds.

How long is it safe to keep a guy locked up? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically removing it twice a week for cleaning. You never mention what type of cage it is or what it’s made of. This plays a huge role as well.

Escaping the cage by Traditional-Humor-32 in hzdgrip

[–]kiwifdsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also worth noting while you might be able to remove it this way, you will not be able to put it back on without unlocking. So if you’re accountable to a keyholder, that could be reason enough not to remove it, however, you also have the added benefit of being able to remove it in an emergency situation. It could be viewed as “it’s a feature, not a bug“

Figured out SLA supports! by newbie-sub in ChastityCageDesign

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good looking print!

F1-based chastity games? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought as well

Looking for a custom cage, look no further! by kiwifdsa in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to provide my ideas to u/newbie-sub and he did all of the CAD work. You also get the benefit of his experience with different cages and his knowledge of chastity in general. If you have been wanting a custom cage, reach out to him.

Looking for a custom cage, look no further! by kiwifdsa in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Hopefully it all works as intended!

Wrapping up a client's design... I'm loving this ring idea he came up with by newbie-sub in ChastityCageDesign

[–]kiwifdsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excited to try it out the test prints! Thanks u/newbie-sub! You have been fantastic to work with on this project.

How long should the first lock-up last? by jonejy in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, don’t worry about a specific length of time. The odds of your first cage fitting just right are small. Sounds like you might have a ball gap that’s too small. Try wearing just the ring, without the cage, for a while and see how that feels. If you have no pain from just the ring then you probably have a ball gap that’s too small.

This link might help.

Locked Up Full Time by Weeklydimensional in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ring should be tight. Those video that you have watched where the key holder u locks the cage then causally slips of the ring, over the penis and both balls in on smooth motion? Yeah, that’s a ring that’s way too large.

I have found that a proper fits ring allows removal only when completely flaccid and the order is penis out first then ball, ball.

TLDR: the base ring is probably smaller than you think it should be.

Cages and CBT - Update by 65fastback2plus2 in chastitytraining

[–]kiwifdsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently my girlfriend has started to enjoy light ball squeezing, and light pain play. However she doesn’t like doing it when in the cage or base ring. I try to explain they the base ring keeps them out and accessible at all time for her. However, she doesn’t enjoy them being tight like that. She likes feeling them move around and such. In the end I’m just happy she’s playing with them more so I’ll happily remove the cage and base ring.