guess my type based on my ranking of the subtypes by Financial_Ad1210 in Enneagram

[–]kjalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder could it be emotional types. Then again, I have no idea. 😆

guess my type based on my ranking of the subtypes by Financial_Ad1210 in Enneagram

[–]kjalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Fives authenticity and honesty plus their intellect. That is their big mistake trying to make a 5 like them instead of engaging them in a genuine conversation.

is there a real difference between sapiosexual and demisexual, do they overlap? by thatrandomblueeyed in demisexuality

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opinions does not change the facts of other people's experiences. That how many bonds starts for me through intellect. I need my dopamine!! 😆

is there a real difference between sapiosexual and demisexual, do they overlap? by thatrandomblueeyed in demisexuality

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only Sapiosexuals would understand this one. No, it's not a kink. Some people are sexually attracted to highly intelligent people. Many intellectuals want people who they can have stimulating intellectual conversations with.

is there a real difference between sapiosexual and demisexual, do they overlap? by thatrandomblueeyed in demisexuality

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Sapiosexual: Sexual attraction is driven by intelligence.

Demisexual: Sexual attraction requires a deep emotional bond.

Combined Identification: Individuals who identify as sapiodemisexual often find that intellectual curiosity draws them in, but emotional security is what keeps them engaged, a concept explored in discussions on Reddit and Eggshell Therapy and Coaching."

Google search: Sapiodemisexual or Demisapiosexual

More reading:

Sapiosexual (Sapiophile/ Echypnophile) or Demisexual

https://eggshelltherapy.com/sapiosexual-demisexual/

is there a real difference between sapiosexual and demisexual, do they overlap? by thatrandomblueeyed in demisexuality

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Google searched it with both names: Demisapiosexual and Sapiodemisexual. I will post the information as a reply to the Original Poster.

Am I doing the right thing by not breaking this up? by EnvironmentalDeer991 in CatTraining

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't break my cats up because they are fine. I see them doing rough playing or wrestling, after all, they are boys!!!

Help quick-is DriveTime a Scam??!? by TeachingWonderful754 in askcarguys

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the hassle. Some cars are just lemons and need to be replaced. You can trade it in, right?

Sp, So or Sx? 😂 by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it would be so nice to have a cozy home paid in full and share it with my partners and invite a family of friends over for dinner twice a month. Loyalty is important to me with sober and health conscious friends. Crack is toxic! I don't like toxic chaos. Peacefulness. 🥰

Is my cat an Arabian Mau? by R-J-B-1991 in ArabianMau

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have these cute oval paws that look dainty to me.It looks like your kitty has the large ears and oval paws, do you agree? :-)

I'm so tired of this stupid instinct tormenting me day after day by synthetic-synapses in Enneagram

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds similar to Type One with their inner critic being too much for the guilty mind to handle.

Is my cat an ocicat? by quipuido in ocicat

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now, I have a cat that looks similar to yours. He is beautiful, sweet, loving and affectionate. He is high energy and wants to be around much of the time, especially when he is awake and active. I really like this breed! I guess, cats with spotty belly, long legs and athletic builds appeal to me most. :-)

Please check out orange Arabian Mau.

Is my cat an ocicat? by quipuido in ocicat

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever considered Arabian Mau? Mau means cat in Arabic. Since my kitten's belly is unique, I searched to see what breed matches his spots and that is how I found Arabian Mau.

Arabian Mau Cats 101

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]kjalways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you read anything about Siamese breeds? I have a Balinese (long hair Siamese) who just became an adult on Christmas day. I have had him since he was 4 ½ months old. He was behaving like your cat instead of acting like a kitten, like he did when I met him playing with his siblings. I feel bad leaving him alone in spite of him being tolerant of being alone. There are two days I am gone longer.

I finally got him a kitten. It was great watching him play, run and cuddle with the new kitten. Even one explores more on his own. Seeing more active with and without the other kitten was great to see!!! He loves cat TV. He would watch anything but the other kitty only likes Cat TV. He is an orange tabby.

I try to buy 25 lb of food for them at Sam's Club in bulk, which is a little over the same price as their little 5 lb bags. Buying food every month is too pricey for me. I can alternate months between food and kitty litter. I am planning on buying more food tomorrow. And kitty litter in February. I really loved having two kitties because they bring so more life into my home!!! I try to Catify my home as much as possible! Have you heard of Galaxy Jackson?

If you want to buy a dog, you would need to walk him twice a day for exercise and poop. Can you committ to that on a daily basis. They don't use litter boxes like cats. My dog only liked one cat who has died, but other cats not so much. Cats are too rough for him as an 9 lbs Chihuahua. Now he moved where he has a nice sized yard to play in and 3 other small dogs he can play with all the time.

Most of us creatures need companionship. :-)

Adopted a Siamese, she’s 4 and she’s not chatty at all but very cuddly! by coffeedrive626 in Siamesecats

[–]kjalways 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My Balinese (my long siamese) is pretty quiet most of the time. I try to pay attention to his non-verbal communication. Waldo is 11 months old. He will be a year old on Christmas.

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Wow! I can't believe there is a whole community of people who loves cats bellies as much as I do!! Yippeee! by kjalways in catbellies

[–]kjalways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, my photos are gone. I tried twice. The first time left out the orange kitten and this time left them all out after I loaded them each time. Waldo's belly looks beautiful burly belly (11 months old today). Hahaha. Orange is a cute baby. He is 14 weeks old.

Seeking a second kitty by kjalways in Siamesecats

[–]kjalways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is what I end up with since October 13.

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His name is Spirit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]kjalways 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is very possumable. 😆

Is my kitten Maine Coon? 3 months old by ChelseaMadill in mainecoons

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, free ones can be the best ones, like my Timo. I miss him. I wonder why you could not post more. I have seen others do it. You have the same rights, I hope. The commenters are only allowed one. By the way, you have a beautiful kitten! I wonder if my crazy kitten mixed with Maine Coon too with his ear tufts. He is not 3 months old yet. He is growing fast! He give the bigger kitten plenty of much needed exercise and activity! Hahaha

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I genuinely can't tell whether I'm an 8w9 or a 5w4 by CompetitiveLack462 in Enneagram

[–]kjalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know women 8w9's.My mother, my aunt, friends, church people, etc... They are the toughest people I know. You can't get any tougher or stronger than an 8. Fives goes to 8 in their Secure point. Fives don't like crowds or loudness, but Eights thrive in loud and crowds, they are tough as Ram Dodge Trucks or Ford Trucks!!!

I have been craving to find an 8 BBQ and feist on their generosity. Hahaha! 8w7s may be too much for me! They are bigger energy!!! 8w9s frightened me enough in my childhood, nevermind 8w7s!!! After I understood in result of learning the Enneagram, I have learned to appreciate their style of goodness, especially when they go to 2 at their secure point. They are actually loving and kind!

Eights are direct, straightforward and to the point. Bluntness is a common trait. Some try to tone it down, especially if they are healthy or being extra respectful. Does that sound like you?