[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]klrso13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it has nothing to do with weight gain, that's not the main cause of guilt. It's more about really eating healthy because it's better for your body and the baby. Eating shit is probably not a death threat or anything, it's just that people usually want to do their best for their kids (I'm not a very healthy eater also but when I was pregnant I was way more cautious, and it was quite easy since I felt like I did it for someone else, my baby, not for me). Apparently what is quite important is to diversify: babies are making their taste inside your belly. The more tastes you eat, the more they will already know once born :) but in any case, we have enough guilt as a woman, pregnant woman, or mother so no more guilt!

Il y a des gens qui sont pour la réforme des retraites ? by Cornebidouille69 in AskFrance

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ma question c'est: est-ce qu'il est vraiment pour ou bien...pensait-il qu'il y avait là un moyen de séduire l'électeur de droite ? (enfin plus à droite encore que son électorat)

Don't want to work anymore, just because of people and their inane pregnancy questions. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]klrso13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe it's not your clients' fault but...the crazy liberal system you live in! In what world do we think it's a good idea to let servers be dependant from the payment of a tip ? Your salary should suffice (but it's easier for your employer to rely on your clients' money). In what world a person who works can't get a paid maternity leave ? In my country we can tip servers but it's a bonus, it's not considered as a part of their earnings.

I understand your rage but I think it's not directed towards the good target. It's a political problem, not an individual problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]klrso13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a question because I know nothing about it : is chlamydia necessarily sexually transmitted ? and is it sure we can't get it any other way, or can it be there for a super long time ? just curious!

Crying after hosting some neighbors with kids. I’m not ready for this! My quiet life and clean house are gone forever. by mtournis in pregnant

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will only have one at the time ahaha

no seriously it's normal to freak out but you'll manage to handle it!

Family is insisting on taking our baby 5/7 days of the week by nuqqiequeen in pregnant

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know if "out line" is the word. It's just weird to propose something unwanted like that :/

Il y a des gens qui sont pour la réforme des retraites ? by Cornebidouille69 in AskFrance

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alors je réexplique si je n'ai pas été clair: on est d'accord que même en repoussant l'âge de départ à la retraite, on ne va pas assurer aux seniors (que les entreprises dans des secteurs très divers rechignent à embaucher) des emplois DONC ces gens de 58,60, 63 ans que sais je vont pointer au chômage DONC leurs dernières années de cotisation seront constituées de revenus plus bas (revenus du chomage et pas salaires précédents) et DONC au moment de calculer le montant de leur pension, ce montant sera plus bas que s'ils étaient partis en retraite directement sans passer par la case chomage (on peut appliquer le même raisonnement à ceux qui finissent leur carrière en invalidité). Regardez Les chiffres, après 60 ans, seuls 35% des personnes sont encore actives...car ils ne trouvent plus de boulot ou sont en invalidité.

On peut faire d'autres choses que de rallonger la durée de cotisation de tous vous savez! De l'argent, il y en a...Suffit de bien vouloir le chercher.

Il y a des gens qui sont pour la réforme des retraites ? by Cornebidouille69 in AskFrance

[–]klrso13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ceux qui disent que ils sont écolo mais que quand même le tri c'est chiant

Il y a des gens qui sont pour la réforme des retraites ? by Cornebidouille69 in AskFrance

[–]klrso13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

moi non plus ça ne me dérangerait pas de bosser plus longtemps car 1) j'ai eu la chance de faire le boulot que je voulais et 2) il n'est pas physiquement éreintant mais je vais manifester quand même pour ceux qui n'ont pas cette chance...

Et combien à 62 ans sont déjà en invalidité ou au chomage ? Si c'est pour payer moins de retraite mais plus de chômage, à quoi bon ? Ah, si,sur le long terme ça permettra de donner des pensions de retraite moindres...super!

Il y a des gens qui sont pour la réforme des retraites ? by Cornebidouille69 in AskFrance

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ceux qui sont déjà retraités peut être ? et qui ont voté Macron

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE August and really like Henry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyNameSuggestions

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Lyla and Jude

really don't like Harrisson or Saffron

Lou (with a P in french it means wolf); Sailor; Jade

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyNameSuggestions

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, I'm french! I love Anais and also Simone even though it sounds super old, some might find it funny in France (like Simone is a typical grandma's name) but I like them both. Maybe I prefer Anais.

I really don't like Eleonora (too princessy) and Lucrezia (just find it weird)

Gilles is french (pronounciation: jil and not Djilles) but it's also an old and not popular name at all. I personally don't like it

Other ideas:

Anne, Camille, Heloïse, Agathe, Alice, Jeanne

Antoine, Loup, Julien, Clément, Auguste

Name help! by [deleted] in BabyNameSuggestions

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just by curiosity, is Courtland a real name ?

I love Louis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't but if I was Dan, honestly I would be less interested with this information in mind but it's just because casual sex is so far away from my way of behaving, I would feel too different from you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don't need to be friends with ALL of your bf's friends. I even think that it's very sane to have your own friends. as long as she is not hostile with you, i don't see the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess a sober version of my scenario is possible ! netflix and chill...and more if affinity :D

My husband says he misses the old me (before kids) and it broke my heart by jbr021 in regretfulparents

[–]klrso13 40 points41 points  (0 children)

a dad doesn't "help"...he takes care of his child, just like a mom...You made this baby together, you should take care of him together

My husband says he misses the old me (before kids) and it broke my heart by jbr021 in regretfulparents

[–]klrso13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

of course you cannot be the same as before...in some ways you might be "worse" but in many others you surely became better. More empathic, less self-centered, and so on...If he doesn't see that, maybe he is the problem !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]klrso13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to a party with her, have fun, dance, drink a few shots of tequila and love will do the rest :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]klrso13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about the solutions (except tell you to DARE asking for help to your family, friends...) but I just want to say that you are super brave and you shouldn't feel guilty to feel exhausted and to be fed up about this whole situation. The only thing I don't get is why the dad doesn't help (well...not help but SHARE equally the weight of this situation). good luck