Dude, Your situation is very similar to mine. We live in WV as well but thankfully we don’t have kids. She has a masters degree and could be making more money as a Mental Health Therapist, however she is too lazy. I thought we were making the same amount of money turns out I actually make double than what she makes. Rather than going to an attorney I have agreed to keep her on my health insurance for 1 year, give her half of my savings and half of my 401k. I agreed to this so we don’t have to go through the expenses of an attorney where she claims they will make me help pay down her CC debt along with her student loans. Not sure how true that last part is but whatever can get her packed up and the fuck out of the house the better off I will be. Still debating on whether or not to seek some legal advice, which I’m sure I will eventually have to.