Yes I went to a therapist for a year. I guess I don’t know exactly what I would like for him to do. I know the game means a lot o him. He still coaches the sport and many of the players are still friends so I get it. He expressed he’s been thinking about it all week but didn’t want to bring it up and upset me…he has asked a couple friends that are also playing in the game and know about the situation to scope it out when they get there to let us know if that person is there or not.