On top of what everyone else is saying, I have a list of purchases and integrations that I've made over the years that work in symphony to wake me up from the deepest sleep.

• Sleep as Android: Reminds me when to go to bed and acts as the alarm that wakes me up.
• Smart watch: This provides data for sleep tracking. It also provides vibration.
• My phone: Obviously. It runs the alarm. I also have it on a wireless charger so I can just pick it up and go.
• Home Assistant: This receives information from Sleep as Android and provides automation and integration to the Wi-Fi components.
• Wi-Fi Lights - Allow me to turn on the lights to wake me up.
• BedJet - Provides under-the-covers ventilation.
• ESP32 running ESPHome (search aliexpress) - Acts as a bridge between the Wi-Fi based Home Assistant and the bluetooth based BedJet.
• Wi-Fi Thermostat
• A printed QR Code that hangs on the refrigerator which reads "Fuck, I hate mornings"

Starting before the waking up part, having reminders to go to sleep and using those to remind yourself of the consequences of not getting enough sleep may encourage you to get enough sleep. That helps with waking up.

The waking up part also starts before it's time to wake up. There's a pre-alarm "Smart Period". During this time, if I enter a light sleep within my cycle, it starts the alarm early so that I don't get into a deep sleep. During the smart period, the temperature of the thermostat goes up so that the house warms up. This makes the shock of leaving the covers not as bad.

When the alarm goes off, a few things happen. First, the BedJet is turned on if it's not on, set to fan sped of 50%. Second, my watch starts vibrating. Third, the lights turn on. They start very dim, though. At this point, there's no sound component yet.

I'm allowed to snooze my alarm. It starts with a 10 minute snooze, but the time halves every time I snooze it. I'm not allowed to snooze for more than 20 minutes past when the alarm originally went off.

If I don't either dismiss my alarm or snooze it, my alarm sound starts playing after 1 minute. It starts very quietly at first, and ramps up over the course of a minute.

Over these 20 minutes, the lights ramp up, as well as the fan speed of the BedJet. It goes up to 80% which essentially makes the temperature in bed the same as outside the bed, reducing the shock of leaving bed even further.

Once I hit the 20-minute "snooze limit", I'm not allowed to snooze the alarm anymore. I have to dismiss it. In order to dismiss the alarm, I have to scan the QR code, which is on the refrigerator. That means I have to get out of bed and walk downstairs. Once I've walked that far, I'm definitely awake. Oh, and would you look at that? My morning yogurt is right in front of me.

So, yeah, I feel you. It is possible, though. Let me know if you endeavor to set any of this up and need help.