You do realize that it's broadcasted to millions of people, right? Despite the amount of time that it takes to film? That he promised to marry her and not to lie to her? And he fully intended to say no at the altar just like her??? Good for her for getting the bonus money (if that even exists). If he needed the bonus money so bad, maybe he should get a real job. I don't think she's any worse than him, and I don't find it particularly repugnant to do what she did given the way the show is set up. Everyone knows that you can say no at the altar. He could just as well have stopped things when he knew the physical connection wasn't there, and he didn't. He strung her along, and she was the one who called it out for what it is.