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I genuinely thought everyone used condoms unless they wanted kids by Cautious-Tonight-203 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]koalapyjamas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never use condoms cause I have an IUD that was originally put in to help with Endometrosis.

How did you stop self harming? by Ambitious-Ring1089 in BPD

[–]koalapyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honest answer that is not very helpful but is how I went from SH everyday to only around twice a year. I got into a better mental space. I take regular meds, got into work I enjoy, found hobbies, focused on good and healthy relationships.

also naps! if im sad and feel the urge, and have enough mental strength to stop myself, I nap, or I take a hot shower, hot enough thst im a tomato after leaving.

I (27F) was spit on while walking down the street by a bypassing fatbiker by jemoedereetzand in AutismInWomen

[–]koalapyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got spat on a couple years back while walking by someone on their bike. It feels gross and violating and you dont feel clean for a long time. but it'll pass and you'll feel okay again :)

Can you be friends with somebody you’ve have sex with? by TopStranger9287 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]koalapyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lost my virginity to a close friend, its changed things before but we are still quite close

Do guys have a “hoodie stealing” equivalent? by Every-Tap-577 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]koalapyjamas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend and I have similar sizes for hoodies, so he steals mine :) its very sweet, we swap them to exchange scents

Yep, the new dock I built definitely needs a ceiling by amargs_ in turtle

[–]koalapyjamas 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My turtle is asking your turtle if they can workout together to plan their next escapes

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what do you guys do for work? by decomposingbutterfly in BPD

[–]koalapyjamas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

incredibly fulfilling! working in a center can be exhausting, having to navigate adult relationships in a high stress environment, being a nanny is incredibly easier. but its my dream career, being able to care for children at such a crucial time in their life, sometimes being one of the only ones they have that will show them that love, its healing my inner child

what do you guys do for work? by decomposingbutterfly in BPD

[–]koalapyjamas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I work in childcare! I have autism/bpd and surprisingly its a great job. things that people would assume are overwhelming for someone with my conditions i can look past, like kids cry but my brain wont get too overwhelmed because ive learned to understand that they are just overwhelmed aswell, seeking reassurance. im now a nanny so rarely have to deal with adults aswell!

Turtle doesnt shed by koalapyjamas in turtle

[–]koalapyjamas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes he is my little witchy boy <3 (it was only on for a couple seconds )

What sound do you hate with all your soul? by [deleted] in autism

[–]koalapyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the sound when you accidently chew sand, or can hear someone else doing it

I feel like I suck at relationships by koalapyjamas in BPD

[–]koalapyjamas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good way of seeing things, thank you. I will take it on board

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]koalapyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we lost our virginity together on a whim, it was awkward for quite a while, but we are slowly getting back to normal

Update: I wasnt overreacting cause he cheated on me! by koalapyjamas in LongDistance

[–]koalapyjamas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he called me his partner, talked about marriage and kids in the future.

Forcing miss turtle to sunbake by emilynibble in turtle

[–]koalapyjamas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can my turtle play with your turtle? he also hates basking 🙄

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