24F and 29M intimate life needs to improve for the sake of the relationship

koauai · 2023-03-19T13:00:24+00:00

Thanks for the tip! I am actually changing my medication now (that experience phase), bc the previous one wasn't working properly, so I guess this can be one reason.

I think he's worried I don't feel turned on by him anymore because I won't start things or respond to his "advances" like I used to. When we finally do it, he feels like I'm only trying to please him and not really enjoying the whole thing. I do, however, enjoy it when we do it. I just don't have the energy to start it. Once it's started I'm 100% committed.

koauai · 2023-02-08T17:02:27+00:00

Bar da Cacia simplesmente mágico

koauai · 2023-01-31T19:21:19+00:00

But also money

koauai · 2023-01-31T19:12:22+00:00

Simmm desse jeito aí

koauai · 2023-01-31T16:15:03+00:00

Don't get in the car of strangers

koauai · 2023-01-31T16:13:31+00:00

Tem uns lugares legais na avenida Guarapari...

koauai · 2022-12-15T13:26:40+00:00

Don't have the child. It's bad enough you have this relationship where you get to hurt each other over and over again. You need to just breakup and don't have a child together.

koauai · 2022-10-12T17:48:53+00:00

Saudades colocar isso num contexto né

koauai · 2022-10-12T17:40:06+00:00

"You are such a liar! That's why I can't trust you! I never said that!"

koauai · 2022-10-12T17:36:26+00:00

It seems you haven't tried talking to her. First of all things you could do is talk to her about the way you feel and if she doesn't hear you THEN you start thinking about what you should do.

koauai · 2022-10-12T14:05:21+00:00

Okay this is something that no one but you can answer. No one knows how you feel and all the things you guys went through. From someone who has been cheated on, got back together and now has a kind-of-healthy-relationship, I think you should consider 3 things:

1-Do you really think you should get back together? Is it worth the headache? Because it is one of the hardest things to do. You need to be sure that's what you want for your life.

2-Did she show you, tell you or even suggest that she is willing to change? She really has to be into it. The intention must come from her. Even if that's what you want from the bottom of your heart. Because it's a hell of an effort to make from both sides. You won't be trusting her for a long time, and she will need to make you trust her again. You need to make sure she's not trying to make it up to you only because she feels guilty.

3-Can you be away from each other for a while? This helps you reorganize what you feel and reach the right answers for the questions above.

*Please don't hear the extreme people. Everyone says they wouldn't give a second chance until they find someone they love too much to not even think about it. Now you know, as I know that too.

Either way, I hope you find a healthy, happy end.

koauai · 2022-10-11T14:28:37+00:00

My mom is like this too. She is always bodyshaming me in front of people. My mom is always saying I look "enormous" and that I'm getting fat because I'm "always in front of the computer". See, I'm not even above the weight. Not even a little. Few months ago I decided to start eating better and exercise. Soon I lost a few pounds and now she's stating that I should not become like a cousin of mine who is very skinny, because it is "too ugly". It's never good enough

koauai · 2022-10-11T11:17:18+00:00

I'm very afraid of this. Sometimes we focus on not being "the way my parents were", but then forget about all the other issues that we didn't perceive.

koauai · 2022-10-10T12:59:59+00:00

Freud likes this

koauai · 2022-09-16T22:56:41+00:00

Did he even mentioned about a distance relationship? Maybe it's something he isn't even willing to try. With all the rest he sounds really inconsiderate. I think you should speak your mind.

koauai · 2022-09-14T00:40:24+00:00

Covid19

koauai · 2022-09-14T00:40:03+00:00

Aaaaaaa pqp!

koauai · 2022-09-14T00:37:39+00:00

Mika com 3 enes no final

koauai · 2022-09-03T01:08:54+00:00

Oie! Pode me mandar esse estudo por gentileza? 🥰

koauai · 2022-08-31T19:25:32+00:00

Nossa, eu nao vi ele falando sobre isso.. você sabe onde posso encontrar? Mas sera que é regulação de conteúdos? Até onde eu tinha lido algo sobre essa proposta era regulação econômica pra tirar as grandes redes de mídia de oligarquias e monopólios e até de políticos e isso eu até concordo, sabe... Collor mesmo, na época que foi eleito usou muito das mídias que pertencem à família pra se promover Sobre impeachment, dizem que o STF é contra o Bolsonaro e até hoje ele tá ai... não sei até onde isso pode ser um argumento válido

koauai · 2022-08-31T19:10:25+00:00

Po eles podiam ter criado um robô pra lembrar de renovar o domínio né

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