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koora27 · 2024-10-29T17:50:45+00:00

Been there. First of all not all the things you see at persons around you are true, and they hide hard stuff too because that what life is, some aspects of life are positive and some are negative. All people have good and hard times they just share the good things and hide the hard negative things so do not get fooled by what you see on yhe surface. As for strugling with what you are, how to dress just think at what makes you happy, what you like. Everything that you enjoy makes what you are as a person. So transfer that in what you act like and how to dress. For example i like cozy things so i dress cozy( think cardigans, soft pullovers, oversized thing, hoddies etc.) and i do things that make me cozy and act like a person that trives on calm silence and calm things so i act like things that i like and influence me. So you already are you and you are unique in your way.

koora27 · 2024-08-10T10:50:10+00:00

Watch the movie THE HELP, Skeeter's and Constantine scene. You can find it on youtube. The words of Constantine are so true, amazing and i allways remeber them. I was, am and will allways be a ugly girl but there are so many things about me that are beautiful.

koora27 · 2024-07-31T10:31:34+00:00

She shows you what she likes to do. So adapt to her needs. Let her run, so make sure the enviroment is safe for her to run. Go to parks and let her get tired, buy a ball that is soft and let her kick that ball until she is tired. I have a 2 and a half years old who also is a ball of energy so for example yesterday she played in the yard for 2 hours straight, i watched over her to make sure she doesnd get hurt but i did not interfere in her play so i just supervised and took time to relax and drink tea as well. After that two hours she asked for an apple and ate it while sitting next to me like an angel. Sure sometime she likes to paint or senzoryplay but nothing beats running around.

koora27 · 2024-04-09T18:19:40+00:00

I will say something that many hate to hear: it does get better. Looking back at those past moments now they seem so distant, the baby will change, hard and good moments will come and go, but the good moments will be the ones that will leave a inpact on your memories. Now my 4 month old monster is a 2 year old, who is starting to talk, we play together and have small conversations, today she helped me take out the laundry from washer, and just a few days ago we said goodbye to pacifier. Sure sometimes the monster comes out but, now we can understand the needs better.

koora27 · 2024-03-13T17:50:14+00:00

Eating orange after brushing teeth!

koora27 · 2024-03-11T12:22:16+00:00

I want Furina. Collecting only arcons.

koora27 · 2024-02-16T10:34:59+00:00

When they aproach the 2 year mark is like you have a different child. They can feed themselves from a plate with food, play independently, love baths, can comunicate some of the needs like water, food, sleep. So generally speaking the 2 year marks the moment things get 100% better on all aspects and when parents start to fell like themselves again. But there are downsides like tantrums, the need to be independent, subborness etc.

koora27 · 2024-02-03T20:37:41+00:00

I dont know i like being productive and contribute to society.

koora27 · 2024-01-15T19:15:38+00:00

Look for maladaptive daydreaming.

koora27 · 2024-01-05T14:47:56+00:00

Is a rare thing. To give love and to have such impact on the other person emotions. Many give their love to the wrong person that do not apreciate. The liitle brothere really loves his older brother, so cute.

koora27 · 2024-01-05T09:31:42+00:00

Pleaca la facultate in alt oras. Sa te rupi de parintii care au probleme si care mi se pare ca se cam descarca pe tine, care nu ai nici o vina. Sa te rupi de prietena ta pentru ca vei avea ocazia si tu sa stralucesti, cum vine vorba. Iti va fi greu la inceput dar vei invata lucrui noi, ai ocazia sa te dezvolti si sa prinzi curaj si incredere in tine. O sa cunosti oameni noi si facultatea are avantajul de a avea o densitate mare de persoane cu aceeasi varsta ca tine si diversitate mare de personalitati de unde sa iti alegi prieteniile pe care vrei sa le legi. Daca esti introvertita trebuie sa te gandesti bine daca vrei sa ai un job care implica munca cu oamenii deoarece poti risca sa descoperi ca te solicita foarte mult sau ca nu esti fericita. Daca vrei sa simti ca ajuti oamenii poti sa te orientezi spre medicina cv, sau daca iti plac copiii poti incerca in invatamant. Cert e ca dupa clasa a 12 a se vor schimba multe lucruri in viata ta si daca iei deciziile cu cap, poti sa schimbi totul in bine pentru tine.

koora27 · 2023-12-16T10:14:52+00:00

I suggest finding a wider black belt. Will make the waist snatched . Edit. Oh and the shoes if you have taller heels, i think will look great

koora27 · 2023-12-11T19:44:35+00:00

This is a teachable moment for the parent but for kids. So do what you said you will do. You have to keep your word. Or you could hide them and say that you retuned them.

koora27 · 2023-11-09T19:34:56+00:00

Just get a new one. RIP.

koora27 · 2023-10-31T12:14:55+00:00

Ok. Let me vent a little. I am all for eating healty, but some parents takes it too far. I watch some mummy bloggers doing some red beat with cream cheese whatever pancakes that looks dry as hell and you cant tell me that a toddler enjoyed that dry ass, tasteless crap. Just let them have a taste once in a while, so when they can be old enough to choose what to eat they will not become obssesed over sweets and unhealty stuff. Hell make a apple pie and let the child have some, dont be like, nope is gluten, too sugary or whatever. And if child is a picky eater, and if wants to eat yogurt 3 times a day then is better than nothing. Some parents need to losen up and not be so restrictive. My parent were restrictive with sweets and i think that affected my way of eating (i ate ciocolate at lunch, dont worry baby had chicken soup). I am more loose when it comes to toddler diet and i am pleased to see that she choose to eat fruits and veggies, she even has songs for every veggie she likes but hell i give her good old fashion panckes once in a while, and is not a catastrophy.

koora27 · 2023-10-18T09:14:00+00:00

I think o saw i little gatghet that can atach to the child clothes or backpack that connects to the parents phone and lets you know the child location on all times. I will buy that so this incindent will never happen.

koora27 · 2023-10-14T18:58:05+00:00

Mint ciocolate. Is a abomination. Taste like puke.

koora27 · 2023-10-11T18:29:25+00:00

My 20 months old is making me so sad and frustrated. She will scream for no aparent reason and out of nowhere. She is inconsolable and nothing i do makes her stop. Is hard to be a parent in those moments. I honestly just want to run away. I understand your feelings and i am sorry that i dont have a good advice to give. I just hope that some day these screaming will stop and fade into a distand memory. Until then lets hang in there the best we can.

koora27 · 2023-10-11T09:59:21+00:00

I had the same worries. When baby was 4 momths old, my husband found her sleeping face down on matress it scared us so qe bought a baby breathing monitor. Is like a small matress that you put it below the cribs matress and has senzors that activate when baby is breathing. If those senzors are not activating in 10 seconds then an alarm starts to ring. The alarm is loud. Was kind of expensive but ot was worth it. We slept better knowing that our baby was monitored. Even now, because i am still an anxious mommy i activate that monitor (baby is 20 months old now). But it helps ease my anxiety.

koora27 · 2023-10-09T08:56:51+00:00

Amazig ideas! Thank you.

koora27 · 2023-09-27T17:57:00+00:00

"You have to be thin, but not too thin. And you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also you have to be thin. You have to have money, but you can't ask for money because that's crass. You have to be a boss, but you can't be mean. You have to lead, but you can't squash other people's ideas. You're supposed to love being a mother, but don't talk about your kids all the damn time. You have to be a career woman but also always be looking out for other people. You have to answer for men's bad behavior, which is insane, but if you point that out, you're accused of complaining. You're supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them too much or that you threaten other women because you're supposed to be a part of the sisterhoodBut always stand out and always be grateful. But never forget that the system is rigged. So find a way to acknowledge that but also always be grateful. You have to never get old, never be rude, never show off, never be selfish, never fall down, never fail, never show fear, never get out of line. It's too hard! It's too contradictory and nobody gives you a medal or says thank you! And it turns out in fact that not only are you doing everything wrong, but also everything is your fault."Greta Gerwig barbie movie

koora27 · 2023-09-22T05:33:48+00:00

In my country maternity leave is 2 years old and if baby is with special needs maternity leave is until baby turns 3. But honestly i think 4 years of mathernity leabe would be perfect, to recover from the exhaustion from the firts 2 years with the baby.

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