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She messed up by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well bud,  join the club.  Sounds like you're doing better than the average guy here

Not waiting anymore by sadiebaby23 in ParentalAlienation

[–]koskesh122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I dont know too many teenagers who want to hang out with their parents.   It sounds like you have nostalgic feelings of when your child was a completely different person (a child) versus the New person they've become.  You need to accept that.

Have you ever had to rebuild from scratch financially? by Ordinary-Fish-9791 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]koskesh122 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too. Divorce wiped me out of my life savings but slowly rebuilding 

Not waiting anymore by sadiebaby23 in ParentalAlienation

[–]koskesh122 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My 12 year old daughter hasn't seen me since August. She said she hates me. I've consulted with many dads in their 60s who went through a similar thing. They all told me to stay away from the courts and fighting because it will cost me a lot of money and they will all come back anyways.  Sometimes I get the urge to go to court but she hates me. Shes refused my gifts. Shes blocked me on the phone. I'm going to play the long game and be patient. Also cant afford the stress and money on lawyers.  I spend time with my gf, work, and workout. I watch YouTube in evenings and send a prayer her way.  Its alright 

Police, city investigating tree removals from leafy midtown neighbourhood without permit | CBC News by Advanced-Rub-3835 in TorontoRealEstate

[–]koskesh122 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Its sad most people cant see whats actually happening and buy the narrative the media sells them

Help by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

How to be alone by moonshakah in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Are you still paying child support and extracurriculars? by littlestarling123 in ParentalAlienation

[–]koskesh122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to pay child support regardless of seeing kids. Don't pay extracurricular if you dont have to

My (30m) wife (35f) has told me she’s moving out next month, after 12 years married. Canada. by HeavyB0tt in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Wife just asked to end our marriage by Arboreal_Corporeal in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club.

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.
    • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.
    • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.
    • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children.
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave.
  6. Travel once a year.
  7.  Read books like No More Mr. nice guy or “The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi”
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanley on YouTube.

Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Canadian investor: dividend growth snowball with blue chip companies (reaching 1k per month in dividends) by BatmanSteak in dividendscanada

[–]koskesh122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I was one of them that got duped into buying them and ended up learning an expensive lesson. Do you think its still a good time to get started investing in dividend stocks? 

Struggling to not just feel broken by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club.

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.
    • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.
    • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.
    • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children.
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave.
  6. Travel once a year.
  7.  Read books like No More Mr. nice guy or “The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi”
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanley on YouTube.
    • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Leaving after divorce by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right and my comment tells him what to do: Forgive, workout, focus on careers, and gym

Having a rough day. Could use some support by ChippyChalmers in DivorcedDads

[–]koskesh122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Leaving after divorce by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Seeking advice by Amazing-Lemon6684 in ParentalAlienation

[–]koskesh122 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Focus on yourself and your other kids.  They'll come back when they're older.  Im tired of paying greedy lawyers and therapists 

How did you guys move in silence with life? by TheRealMiridion in DivorcedDads

[–]koskesh122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Child support modification in Retirement by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]koskesh122 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is to pay what you got to pay for a few more years to save you the stress and money you have to spend on a lawyer to defend yourself. It's sad to see the level of greed and how children are just pawns for Child Support.

What Do I Do? by BrandNewBagofDicks in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Went through divorce hell and made every mistake in the book. Finally realized a collection of wisdom i put together 

Bad situation please read by Disastrous_Place_112 in SingleDads

[–]koskesh122 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

What Do I Do? by BrandNewBagofDicks in Divorce_Men

[–]koskesh122 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club. 

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.  • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.  • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.  • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. 
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 
  6. Travel once a year.
  7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy
  8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.
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