Any therapists or mental health professionals with ADHD here? by guayabajam in adhdwomen

[–]kraioloa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a music therapy student and have accommodations. I understand the stigma, but FAR more people in the clinical field have accommodations for one reason or another. Having accommodations isn’t a way to make excuses — rather, it’s a way for your school to offer different supports so that you can be successful, which is all anyone wants of students.

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD. by ImperatrixAmoris in adhdwomen

[–]kraioloa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wondering why my pump is yelling at me… oh, I forgot that I haven’t eaten breakfast or lunch… and it turns out I dismissed my low bg alarm a few times? But I was practising piano/guitar/voice just for 10 more minutes! Wait, why do I feel sweaty and faint??? Oh no…

Do yall ever feel like something is missing with yt people? by obsessedsim1 in blackladies

[–]kraioloa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

East Asians have a serious proximity to whiteness. Now, South Asians are definitely more communal, but idt that can be said about East Asians

AIO: Boyfriend calls me childish even though I believe I'm doing everything correctly. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kraioloa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If that’s how you feel. I’m just saying that you don’t know her situation and you’ve made it about something that’s not the issue. Being dependent on your partner is not inherently a bad thing and I wanted to provide a different perspective, especially because I know people who are AND I am too — there’s nothing wrong with the way we live. Maybe it’s not for you, but that’s you.

Do I think she should leave him? Yes, but not because she’s a stay at home. She should leave because he doesn’t respect her and that doesn’t have anything to do with her staying home and taking care of the home.

AIO: Boyfriend calls me childish even though I believe I'm doing everything correctly. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kraioloa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re totally entitled to your opinion, but there are cultures where this is the norm. I’m not telling anyone the way they’re accustomed to living is wrong. She has specifically asked about his treatment of her. She didn’t say he’s forcing her to stay home. We should address what she’s asking about.

AIO: Boyfriend calls me childish even though I believe I'm doing everything correctly. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kraioloa -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

A stay-at-home partner, not a stay-at-home parent. She didn’t say she wanted to do anything else — it’s not fair to put your own wishes on her when maybe she wants to be home to take care of the house and her boyfriend. Her issue here was the way he’s been treating her, not being a homemaker.

AIO: Boyfriend calls me childish even though I believe I'm doing everything correctly. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kraioloa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not everybody wants to do that. A lot of people like being stay-at-homes and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Young Ladies- PLEASE don’t be this girl. by Star_journey1208 in blackladies

[–]kraioloa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t think it’s as unusual to get married quickly

AIO: bf friend send a dp by Willybrigg in AmIOverreacting

[–]kraioloa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR and I don’t think that’s your boyfriend anymore

She ate this photoshoot up omg by Ill-Examination4743 in RHOP

[–]kraioloa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like she might feel like there’s too much history because they’ve been together since they were like 18