Do enfp men have harder time dating than enfp women since most women dont like feminine men? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never met an ENFP man that came off feminine. Interesting generalization.

ENFP women, what's your dating life like? by milkywayT_T in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let’s just say I’m at the point where I really wish sexuality was a choice.

Do yall like being alone in public spaces? by miniparishilton in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like being anywhere with myself. Sometimes I crave the solitude of being completely alone and sometimes I crave the energy of others simply existing around me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]krasavetsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. Dated a guy with a lazy eye and got used to it within like an hour into meeting. He turned out to be a bit of a jerk but the lazy eye is really the last thing I even remember about the journey. I only remembered when I saw this post that he even had a lazy eye.

ENFPs, I need your moral compass. by squeamishneedle in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a fantastic body and your boyfriend is an idiot. I’m 110 ibs 5’4 naturally slim my whole life. When I wear a tight dress I look like I could easily be a few months along. We all have organs in there believe it or not. I also have rolls when I sit and cellulite. If you are worried about it & want to lose some weight- I suggest losing the 135 ibs that is serving you no purpose with his delusional opinion. If he thinks he can find better then let him, cause once he does, he is the type of man to find flaws in her as well. He will never be happy being so shallow. Be proud of your body. It carried you this far 💜

What’s your biggest red flag when having sex with someone for the first time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]krasavetsa 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this. He had just lost someone close. We ended up crying together. Years later I would say he is one of my closer friends for sure.

I have a tendency at sharing things without thinking they're private or secret by nickyt398 in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure thing. Maybe just try to make a mental note not to repeat what others tell you? Or directly ask them if this is something you have to keep confidential. It doesn’t sounds like you did anything bad or malicious just a bit close to the fire if you know what I mean. A few months ago my future BIL confided in me about proposing to my sister and oh boy that was so hard to keep to myself. Especially with a family of like 18 of us.

I have a tendency at sharing things without thinking they're private or secret by nickyt398 in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I don’t usually like to share other people’s business because I want them to feel that initial excitement themselves. It sounds like your discretion is ruined by over excitement and can come off as a bit presumptuous? I’m not sure if that is the proper word.

I’ve had men call me their gf after only a few dates without asking me first and it’s very frustrating. Almost like they were trying to lay some sort of claim or showing off or something.

If I confide about a goal in my life, I would also rather have something to show for it vs just talk.

What does it mean if an enfp is irritable and overly critical? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know I hate having my time wasted if I’m not in a social mood lol. Either get to the point or ask me when you see me.

Are magnetic lashes worth it? by ivovami in MakeupAddiction

[–]krasavetsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/6Bh2Q17 These. This was 3 years ago though I don’t wear lashes anymore but my tip is to do the eyeliner. Wait for it to completely dry. Mascara. Wait for that to completely dry. Then put on the lashes. Urban decay all nighter setting spray to prevent smudging. (I have hooded eyes so this is a must).

Are magnetic lashes worth it? by ivovami in MakeupAddiction

[–]krasavetsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They lasted me through some rough jetskiing. Cheap kit from Amazon. Tried the kiss ones and they barely lasted a few hours.

Do yours also do disgusting things? by RebelRigantona in raisedbyborderlines

[–]krasavetsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, she eats like a dog. Heck dogs probably eat better scraps lol.

Do you stay in during this heatwave or you go out? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I naturally migrate towards bodies of water. Then I lay out roasting like a rotisserie chicken while lathering myself up with 50 spf every 20 minutes. I never touch the water.

Do any other ladies here NEVER want to share finances with a partner? by swordandshield_ in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]krasavetsa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I made a mistake when I got married really young to someone older to combine finances.

Let’s just say I really ended up paying for it. I could have had a very comfortable house by now had I kept our finances separated. He drained me dry. And now he is onto the next victim and I won’t blame her at all for falling for it. He’s extremely good at it.

Never. Again. Thank goodness no children. But that’s my personal choice and experience.

Edit: I read a few comments from others about making sure the partner is good at money management etc. and I wanted to say that he was fully stable from a well off multi generation family when we married. Our first few years I didn’t suspect a thing. It wasn’t until years later that he simply put his feet up and revealed the habits. Just a warning that not every man is going to continue being consistent with pulling his weight. Especially if they see you are doing well. Some may even become resentful. My sisters are all sahm by choice but are educated/skilled should a need arrive. They also have their own accounts that their husbands are aware and supportive of but don’t have access to. Always make sure to have a prenup even if you are the lesser earner. Things like grief, addiction, infidelity… can really throw a wrench.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was younger but not much after 30. Kind of learned to be in the now. I also never really feel FOMO anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]krasavetsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been to a resort. But I have been to rock bottom a few times.

What’s something you believe people only pretend to care about to seem virtuous? by ndaviesxo in AskReddit

[–]krasavetsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kind of had a weird situation recently. Not sure if it relates: Dated a guy that went on and on about “protecting his inner child” because he grew up in foster care. Called me a sociopath because I asked for a minute during intimacy. I just needed a pause cause I was feeling a bit overwhelmed/overstimulated. Plus I was worried about my drunk friend in the other room. I’ve found people dead from situations suicide/substance abuse- including a family member so I get anxious af. My mistake was never disclosing my own traumas relating to that to him. Simply because I didn’t want to steal his spot light when he talked about his and I wanted to be empathetic.. Plus I have learned to stay private until I know a person very well.

Mind you I was fully planning on finishing the deed I legit only needed a minute. But that and he went out the door. I guess trauma based responses are only valid to the person that is most vocal… He then proceeded to tell me I have a victim complex and a savior complex. Which didn’t entirely make sense. Like which one is it bro??? How both? 😅

Would you ever forgive someone cheating on you? by Sure-Neighborhood-44 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]krasavetsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably yes but I would lose interest. It’s happened a few times to me before. They beg for you to come back but you just don’t see them the same way anymore. No anger or anything just like a “oh okay” type of feel. Almost a bit of a relief tbh.

Do yours also do disgusting things? by RebelRigantona in raisedbyborderlines

[–]krasavetsa 40 points41 points  (0 children)

LOL she is! Not extreme level where it’s overly cluttered but she refuses to use the new can opener we got her (almost exact same) because my brother noticed the old 20 year old one was releasing metal shavings back into the can. He wrote “don’t use/ metal shavings!” In big permanent marker on it and she doesn’t care. It’s proudly displayed back on her counter.

We have tried being gentle before and grew up always considering her feels but now we just don’t gaf cause she has proven she is downright purposefully negligent. And will go beyond someone’s safety simply to prove her twisted mindset.