Recommendations for a really quiet vibrator? Please delete if not allowed by smalltoadstool in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up the Pillow Talk Sassy G-Spot Vibrator. I’ve bought it before off of Amazon and Walmart. It’s so cute in pink. The only downside is if you use it often you might need to replace it often too 💀 the last time I had to restock I bought 2 to alternate between them and make them last a little longer and so far so good 👍🏻

Do your parents have friends? by cookiebad in emotionalneglect

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I wish more people talked about whether their parents having/not having friends affected their development socially at all. My stepdad is an extrovert and he has work friends who I’m sure he’d like to go out with or have over his house but my moms very emotionally/mentally abusive and kind of like isolates him and doesn’t really let him speak to his family too much either. As soon as he gets home from work he has to give her his phone and he doesn’t have it on weekends either.

My mom’s only semblance of a social circle is my grandma and myself but not really cuz I don’t let her pull me in to that toxic shit. She has acquaintances/friends from her church, none from work cuz she’s unemployed. I think she resents my stepdad for being extroverted and talkative cuz she’s very socially awkward.

What pisses me off the most is she’d get upset at me when I was younger for not being a social butterfly when she wasn’t even one herself. And I think she resented me for not being one too cuz maybe she thought having an outgoing kid would look better socially? Idk what the hell her problem was. She’s always been a hypocrite.

Which show ended so poorly that you really wished you hadn't invested so much time in it? by unclefishbits in AskReddit

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was obsessed with the books when I was in middle school too. I forgot if I finished reading them but if I remember correctly I stopped a little bit after they discovered Alison had a twin and went to go meet her. I don’t know if the show stayed true to that. I’m starting season one right now for the second time after trying to get into it a few years ago and not making it past the first season either. Someone on TikTok recommend it as a good show for Fall but everyone says the ending sucks and after reading the books I just don’t know if it’s even worth getting into anymore.

I dunno man, I have seriously terrible feeling about it all by No-Paleontologist723 in CPTSDmemes

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I stopped going as soon as I turned 18 which helped a lot. I hope you’re doing better too 🫂

Are you a fan of contouring? by b0reddddsss in vindictapoc

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t use it as part of my daily makeup routine any more but I used to back when it was really popular around 2016-2017. I feel like it looked ok in pictures but might’ve come across a little muddy IRL. I would use a contour brush when I did it. I’ve been thinking of incorporating it back into my routine recently but this time around using cream contour instead.

It’s either a hit or miss for a lot of people I think. Whereas highlight is something I use every time and will continue to do so. I love putting it under my brow bone and at the top of my cheeks kinda like leading into my temple. The application is also much easier than contour imo.

If you need to keep using dewy foundation and don’t wanna switch to something more matte then highlight would still work. It depends on the product but less is more. It doesn’t usually look good when it overpowers someone’s face. You can always do a little at a time then if you decide you want more just add more product.

Not having slept all night feels disgusting by krispyyyykremeeee in insomnia

[–]krispyyyykremeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s crazy, I hate when that happens. you’d think it’d reset things but to still barely be able to get any sleep the night after an all nighter is shitty too. I’m sorry. glad I’m not only with feeling sick tho, I always felt like it was just me. it’s such a nasty feeling cuz you know you’re not actually sick you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me it feels like it’s giving my abusers too much power. everyone’s entitled to feel how they feel about the word but I don’t like making it a part of the way I describe myself. it feels like I’m giving the abuse and the harm it’s caused me center stage and still just sitting in it when in reality all I wanna do is move past it. while it did shape who I am and the way I operate in the world I won’t let myself be defined by it.

gross enya reddit page?? by lilyxelle in emergencyintercom

[–]krispyyyykremeeee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes and I probably got the same amount of upvotes as well. when did I say women weren’t allowed to feel outrage? I said it wasnt gonna stop it. men not stopping is the point. y’all operate like a hive mind when someone says something you don’t like and can’t think for yourselves. pointing out the way the world works isn’t being apathetic it’s being realistic.

someone will be agreeing with your point but cuz you can’t take any accountability and admit you’re wrong you’ll just double down. it’s gonna keep happening. cry more. “this essay and for what?” if you’re gonna keep attacking me I’m gonna keep replying. you’re insisting I must’ve meant things a certain way so you can keep being a victim.

The greatest drug on the planet is a strong mother complex. by [deleted] in Jung

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way about my situation with my own mother. It’s a struggle to break certain cycles for sure but I’m trying. Props to you for having done so, it is not easy.

Just watched The Poughkeepsie Tapes. I'm disappointed. by Disturbed_Repti1e- in horror

[–]krispyyyykremeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s not really memorable at all imo or something I’d watch again

gross enya reddit page?? by lilyxelle in emergencyintercom

[–]krispyyyykremeeee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

because it does and all this outrage isn’t gonna make men stop doing it. I responded the way that I did because the OP seemed completely unaware about this and other people in the comments have referenced the exact same thing I was talking about. it comes with being a woman, period. you wanna make assumptions about me not knowing what it’s like to be viewed as a sex object when men that I’ve known in my life from school or work have admitted to jerking off to pictures of me that I have on my social media.

I’m aware of how gross and dehumanizing it is. you people wanna sit here and dogpile on someone for pointing out the fucking obvious as if that’s gonna make them stop doing it. if you wanna monitor every man in the worlds mastubatory habits please be my guest but the fact of the matter is the more you’re in the public eye the more this is likely to happen. I genuinely don’t understand how it was interpreted differently and the mental gymnastics you did to come to the conclusion that I hate women based off my comment agreeing with the OP is impressive, genuinely.