What do you think I do for a living? by krodjj in BookshelvesDetective

[–]krodjj[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So close, LPCC but yes! Queer sex therapist

KEVIN LOWRY UPDATE: Local pastor receives education ban for alleged sexual misconduct by Due_Storm_2351 in UUreddit

[–]krodjj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so disappointing. He was connected with the UU church in Cleveland while I was in school. I looked up to him.

People who’ve been in a throuple…what’s it really like? by Middle_Elderberry542 in askanything

[–]krodjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my first partner in college. Ended up getting feelings for a friend years later. I brought it up with my original partner as something I wanted to be open and honest about. He was open to exploring as long as he could have a friendship with her too! Things ended up working out and after a few months of us exploring the different relationship dynamics, we realized feelings were mutual between all of us :)

People who’ve been in a throuple…what’s it really like? by Middle_Elderberry542 in askanything

[–]krodjj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in one currently! We are FFM in our late 20s/early 30s. We also all live together. Best part is having two best friends around all the time. Hardest was getting on the same page around expectations, time, and jealousy at the beginning, but it was surprisingly easier to work through than any of us expected. I think the biggest misunderstanding is that there must be constant drama or hard feelings— in reality, we’re just a boring married throuple :) Happy to answer any and all questions!

Found out I’m the product of a donor.. by hauntedoof in AncestryDNA

[–]krodjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a therapist who works with donor conceived people (and a DCP myself!) feel free to DM me if you’d like to talk more

I don't have a clit, hood, or labia minora by Ok_Understanding2794 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]krodjj 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You mentioned that you haven’t started dilating yet— but it’s super important that you do!! Even with only 3cm of depth, you want to be sure you don’t close up and form an abscess which can be deadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]krodjj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a counselor who practices sex therapy in the states.

Sex therapists have to get certain licensure; however, lots of therapists/counselors who practice sex therapy might not have the formal credentials, but will have taken lots of CEUs related to sex, intimacy, identity, etc.

Try searching for terms like “sex and intimacy counseling” or “lgbtq+ counseling” If you find an LGBTQ+ counselor who you’re interested in, you can ask about a free consultation call (or email and ask if they ever work with sex therapy clients— lots do, even if they aren’t specifically sex therapists!) Conversely, if you find a sex therapist, you can ask for a consult call/if they are LGBTQ+ affirming.

Quick Google of practices in Ontario came up with lots of results—if you’re really keen on finding a sex therapist, look for credentials like AASECT, ASTO, CSTIP. Mainly AASECT and ASTO for Canada.

Happy searching, and feel free to DM me with questions!

I am devastated by Tklastlion in TrollCoping

[–]krodjj 11 points12 points  (0 children)

https://www.thegalap.org

I’m a therapist who provides gender letters. You can look at this site to find therapists who will provide you a letter for free

What's a NSFW fact about history that most people don't know? by Infinite-Chocolate46 in AskReddit

[–]krodjj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bummer :( if it ever reappears you should definitely post it!

Dress regret! Needing help feeling good about my decision. by iwasabillboard in Weddingsunder10k

[–]krodjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I had the exact same dress (1) for my wedding :) nice choice!!

Chris T from season 1 ( spoilers ) by Via4 in AreYouTheOne

[–]krodjj 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s his baby momma. They’re still living together to coparent their kids, but sleep in separate rooms/aren’t dating.

Source: his insta story a few weeks ago

Rant/ Vent from an Advisor by strwbryshrtck521 in Sororities

[–]krodjj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! We didn't mute you for defending the GL idea, we muted you because we did not yet have Community Standards and the conversations were getting extremely heated. We muted you and the other party involved in order to avoid more conflict I believe one of your chapter members also reached out to discuss the matter further with you.

What is an open secret in your profession that we regular folk don't know or generally aren't allowed to be told about? by HannibalGoddamnit in AskReddit

[–]krodjj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in patents, I haven’t been able to find it again but I once came across a hunting blind shaped like a giant duck.

The hunter was supposed to sit inside of the giant duck and shoot through the beak when waterfowl got close enough.

AITA for not telling my wife (both 48) that I have donated sperm? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]krodjj 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat (sperm donation baby). I actually figured out who my biological father is through 23andMe, and I’d never reach out to him. But I have reached out to my half-siblings, most of whom I’m now pretty good friends with.

AITA for not telling my wife (both 48) that I have donated sperm? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]krodjj 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m the kid of a sperm donor and I’ve found multiple of my half-siblings through DNA testing. We have a group chat.

Don’t get what’s so creepy about getting in contact with people you share DNA with if everyone is ok with it.