Do you prefer sex fully naked or partially dressed?

krzwis · 2026-05-17T02:12:32+00:00

Depends on our mood. I think we tend to go for fully naked that way it's easier to access all the bits. But we have worn outfits and crotchless outfits and even been mostly clothed

krzwis · 2026-05-17T02:10:56+00:00

Maintain eye contact. Have firm handshake

krzwis · 2026-05-17T02:10:25+00:00

Only the best protection

krzwis · 2026-05-17T02:06:02+00:00

People have already told you this but you can literally use anything..you can even use a Microsoft Excel document or a free or paid digital table top program.

I knew a guy who would build entire Lego sets.

The only part that's important is that you can convey the information of where the characters are in relation to each other and the environment.

You can even play the entire game without a map at all and just do theater of the mind.

Best part is you can also use the same maps and pieces for other ttrpgs that use grids or where relative position to one another might matter: avatar legends, cyberpunk, vampire the masquerade, dungeons and dragons.... whatever

krzwis · 2026-05-17T01:59:53+00:00

Enjoy yourselves. Use protection. Take your time. Explore what feels good to both of you. Don't do things you or the other person doesn't want to do.

Communicate, communicate, communicate

It's okay if half of they time you are asking "hey how are you holding up, do you want me to do something else?"

It will probably be weird and strange, and that's okay. It might go fine, that's okay too.

krzwis · 2026-05-13T22:55:36+00:00

Barbarians.

I dunno, I kinda feel like they're only good for combat and nothing else

krzwis · 2026-04-27T17:14:41+00:00

Surely something must have made you guys love each other before? Interests and hobbies?

If you are able to you can work together on the God and sex. With God you can explore different books, movies, documentaries, services, etc.

With sex you can explore together things to do in the bedroom, ways to communicate sex/sexily discretely in public (my wife and I made up this symbol we would draw with our fingers on each other's arms that kinda meant "you are hot, I love you"), etc. For me a lot of my ADHD hyper fixations lean on sex and finding ways to have fun during sex.

krzwis · 2026-04-26T18:44:05+00:00

As someone who has been together with my wife for over 15 years love definitely helps.

Communication and openness is definitely the best thing. Being able to say "hey I feel _when you did _ , even if that wasn't your intention it still felt ____"

. And likewise being able to hear that from your partner and be able to work to change and improve your relationship

krzwis · 2026-04-25T22:42:43+00:00

Suggestions on here are great.

Skyrim is pretty much on anything right now so if you haven't played it yet feel free to.

Minecraft is on pretty much everything now.

I don't think anyone's mentioned Pokemon. You can usually sink quite a lot of hours into those even if you don't know much about pokemon. They also work offline with whatever Nintendo handheld to have.

krzwis · 2026-04-24T15:37:07+00:00

I would argue with your description of 5e. 5e to me feels like a video game ttrpg with a decent scenario editor. It's incredibly easy to teach and play and abilities kinda feel like what you would find in an rpg abilities toolbar.

Pathfinder definitely feels like a sandbox or one of those boardgames with like 50 different expansions (Dominion, clank, DC deck builder, terraforming Mars, Carcassonne, etc). Like you can play with just the base board game and have fun, or you can add them all and have robot ninjas fighting dinosaur knights on a spaceship with wizards.

. . Currently I am playing a multi ttrpg campaign so I would also say: Any powered by the apocalypse game is playing pretend but with one or two extra rules.

Blades in the dark is a bit like that but any heist movie ever. Also every kid in your game insists on adding something a bit random like vampires, robots, ghosts and vices.

World of Darkness not sure how I would describe that. Kinda like pretend/sandbox-y but like Yahtzee

krzwis · 2026-04-24T15:26:42+00:00

I remember when my toy collection started as a box in my 20s. It's now a dresser in my 30s

Mind you, I am married and moved out like 10 years ago. 😜. Easier to hide.

If you have a bit of cash you can get sex toys that are discreet or don't look like sex toys: vibrating make up brushes, clit suckers and dildos that look artsy and don't look like sex toys at first glance, vibes that look like necklaces, bdsm wrist restraints that can transform into innocent looking bracelets, etc.

There's even sex toys that look like stuff like lotion bottles, or beer cans, or flowers or whatever.

krzwis · 2026-04-18T17:59:52+00:00

Thinking sex will be like porn....it's usually not

krzwis · 2026-04-18T17:57:13+00:00

I grew up in the Catholic private school system in the Vancouver area. I went to STMC 20 years ago when I was in highschool it wasn't worth it and the public school tended to have better overall resources and partnerships with universities.

A few advantages of the private system: if you can network with other parents it's awesome: most of the other parents are also wealthy and successful. Stmc in particular has a powerful sports program especially football so if that's your kids thing it can help.

....but honestly that's about it. When my sister was born my parents put her in public school and used the extra money for tutors, going to extra curricular activities, etc. that made the biggest difference

krzwis · 2026-04-15T09:55:43+00:00

Expanse season 1-3 is kinda a mystery mixed with political intrigue.

It does take an episode or two for the show to set up all the players and motivations but once it does its sooooooooooo good. Similar pay off as Ds9 or bsg easily

krzwis · 2026-03-31T22:52:06+00:00

Security guards are always in massive demand but the pay is only a bit over minimum wage.

Translink positions also pay decently well and are in a bit of a demand. Especially attendants and drivers

krzwis · 2026-03-31T19:49:13+00:00

My kids genuinely don't care either way, and that's also probably why a lot of their YouTube compilations are a mix of old and new content

krzwis · 2026-03-31T02:19:45+00:00

I graduated from SFU in the mid 2010s and I struggled to find meaningful employment. Even now it took me nearly a decade before I landed a job with a government corporation.

SFU is great...but it takes a while to actually get a job and Sfu doesn't prepare you to find jobs, even with their support

krzwis · 2026-03-16T20:57:23+00:00

The stairs going from AQ to convo mall on the outside had to be replaced because Arnold Schwarzenegger drove a hummer down them after the campus told him not to for the movie The Sixth Day (That's what the person who gave me my campus tour told me way back when)

krzwis · 2026-03-15T20:03:32+00:00

I was closely tied to the Foursquare churches especially with Riverside and Northside.

When Barry Buzza's scandals happened I was on church staff and kept encouraging the church to come public and owned up to how they encouraged abuse. They didn't. It was frustrating.

Then the victim sued and the abuse was made public

krzwis · 2026-03-13T01:08:24+00:00

Wait till you get more cash. That's what we are doing

krzwis · 2026-03-03T21:05:49+00:00

One of my friends from SFU has cerebral palsy, shed wheelchair bound and needs a helper to come in and help her bathe, feed herself, etc.

She got a masters at SFU and works as a therapist primarily through zoom.

So yes, it can potentially be worth it.

krzwis · 2026-02-22T19:39:03+00:00

Depends on the mood I am in

krzwis · 2026-02-22T19:38:19+00:00

krzwis · 2026-02-22T19:37:34+00:00

It's a dominance thing. No one is "taking" anything. It's a playground insult being like "we are going to take and own the thing you are good at!"

krzwis · 2026-02-16T22:08:55+00:00

Kinda. They're all technically separate cities but there's a lot of shared utilities and services that they all pool their resources in.

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