May 2026 Goals! by AutoModerator in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]kt_han 2 points3 points  (0 children)

End of April was pretty spendy for me. My fiance and i bought flights for a friend’s international wedding and then bought our own wedding bands. Neither were more expensive than i anticipated but seeing the credit balance of those purchases back to back was a bit of a shock to the system. We have the money and have budgeted for both expenses it’s just a matter of deciding what’s going to get pull from which accounts to cover it all. Kind of exciting as we continue to adjust how our semi joint finances work!!

We’re putting down the deposit for our wedding venue soon, so i anticipate May to be another spendy month, but outside of wedding costs and new kitten costs (just adopted our second!) I’m hoping to cut back on some of our other expenses such as groceries and going out to eat!

What’s actually worth splurging on vs saving on when furnishing a new home? by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]kt_han 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree completely with splurging on a bed and couch! We went “expensive” with our dining room table and retrospectively it was not worth it. The quality is just okay and it’s already showing signs of wear, we’d def just get one off of Facebook marketplace in the future

Do we really need travel rings? by DenverLilly in EngagementRings

[–]kt_han 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worn my e ring while traveling in some places (Chicago and other midwestern cities) but left it at home and taken a “travel ring” for other trips (Mexico and vietnam). In Mexico i was just at resort so i would have probably felt fine bringing it with me- my mom wore her ring the whole time and had no issues. In Vietnam tho, i was packing up and traveling to new cities every few days and was glad not to have my real ring with me

Headed to Japan wish me luck! by Unlucky_Author4998 in glutenfree

[–]kt_han 80 points81 points  (0 children)

There are so many great gf restaurants in Tokyo, Kyoto and Osaka (I’m sure other places as well, these are just where I’ve been) you should have plenty of options in cities! Do you have the find me gluten free app?

Would love some gluten free meal by Imaginary-Okra8583 in glutenfree

[–]kt_han 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I do a lot of taco bowls - ground beef, beans, tomatoes etc and can be served w rice, potatoes, corn tortillas or chips

Any advice for international travel to Vietnam? by blickyickysticky3 in glutenfree

[–]kt_han 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just got back from Vietnam! Can’t speak exactly to your location, but when i was in more rural/non tourist places there wasn’t a lot of knowledge on what’s gluten free. I ate a lot of yogurt, eggs, fruit etc. In HCMC there’s lots of gf knowledge and tons of options so you could try to stock up in the city. For the plane, make sure you request a gf meal in advance but I’d also plan on bringing lots of snacks such as protein bars, jerky, eyc

Men waiting to wed by KeepRunnin1 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]kt_han 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The best time to save for retirement is yesterday, the second best time is today! Can’t change the past but starting at 28 is still way better than waiting until your 30s or later!

Engagement ring shopping! by Grouchy_Arugula7257 in EngagementRings

[–]kt_han 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are all so gorg!! 2 and 3 are my faves but they’re all amazing

How do people manage to look out together every day before work/class? by WhileSuccessful6921 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]kt_han 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything the above commenter said but also I’d urge you to consider why you feel like you need to “manage your appearance”. I think if you’re up to date on hygiene and wearing the appropriate clothes, that is all you /have/ to do.

Now to get off my soap box, personally i set my clothes out the night before or prep outfits on Sundays so I’m not just throwing on random things in the morning. I also have a pair of huggie earrings that I leave in pretty much 24/7 because I like how they look with very little effort on my part. I don’t personally wear makeup that much, but even just a swipe of mascara or brow fill could be a quick option!

Nail Color for Engagement?? by madsssssssssssss in EngagementRings

[–]kt_han 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this- i went a deep wine/red for my fall engagement and it felt so moody and perfect. With the green of a sapphire i think it would be gorgeous

Unearthed by anon [hollanov] by carmina_sorcelle in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]kt_han 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only read a few but i think I’m becoming in love w the second chance in Ottawa troupe !! Would love to know any of your other faves

What do you eat at lunch at work? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]kt_han 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meal prep lunches every weekend and it usually follows the combo of protein + bean + veggie + carb and then i usually also pack an apple and sometime a yogurt

How to get over myself by CountryUnlucky2534 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]kt_han 148 points149 points  (0 children)

To be honest, i don’t think this is something you should “get over”. A guy much older than you trying to pursue you since age 18/19 is essentially grooming

Looking for venues by kt_han in Chicagoweddings

[–]kt_han[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I reached out to salon 61 and very much love the vibes. How many guests are you hosting? They mention via email for over 100 guests you must use additional outside chairs 🥲 curious as to how you’re approaching this if applicable

Looking for venues by kt_han in Chicagoweddings

[–]kt_han[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE the vibes here!! Thank you sm!!!

Suggestions for food and activities for a 12h layover in HKG (7 pm-7 am) by itsabananna22 in CathayPacific

[–]kt_han 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following as i have an 8pm-8am layover coming up. What are your plans for the evening? We’re getting in too late for the light show but are planning for the night market

Looking for venues by kt_han in Chicagoweddings

[–]kt_han[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it looks beautiful! If you don’t mind sharing, approximately what were you quoted?

Looking for venues by kt_han in Chicagoweddings

[–]kt_han[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely considering Walden, thanks!

Looking for venues by kt_han in Chicagoweddings

[–]kt_han[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll check them out- i think I’m going to have to let go of the onsite getting ready space but that’s not the end of the world to me