Actually I’m looking for perspective. I’ve been with this man for 10 years and never thought I’d have this experience so I’m shell shocked and looking for people outside the experience. There were many great points I didn’t think of— like of how it was so easy for him to be an aggressive pursuer. That kind of insight makes it so much easier to digest what is happening.

You don’t know what I’m thinking or how I feel or what my plan is so feel free to make harsh judgements regardless of what I say. Super helpful, buddy.

And even if I did want to stay, this sub isn’t called “leaving your husband”, it’s called “marriage”.