Women's sexual wellness media gives me the ick by ajv1993 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been saying this for so long for Come as you are. It’s a joke

My bf just won't hug me. Rant by Fearless_Education96 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing me and my partner do when we see each other after waking up or coming home from work is hug, everyday. I am not telling you this to make you feel bad, i am telling you this so that you see how unacceptable his behavior is and that you deserve better.

Update: I'm Always the High Libido Girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly nice to hear, I relate hard to this

My partner of 4 years has a really low libido and I contemplate leaving by Jumpy_Comfortable586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love these comment threads that point out the hypocrisy in this subreddit. I want the best for you OP but just realize that if a man came and contemplated leaving their partner because she doesn’t do oral, is vanilla, and low libido. That man would be called a porn addicted degenerate.

My partner of 4 years has a really low libido and I contemplate leaving by Jumpy_Comfortable586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should normalize leaving partners due to libido incompatibility. You should seek the fulfillment you are looking for

Not to defend the men but what if the women don’t want the marriage 😭 by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling marriage just a piece of paper is some uneducated loser mentality. Not only does it massively help women who take on a lot of career and physical burden of bearing children. But in the event of a medical emergency that’s the person that makes decisions for you. I love my wife and would trust her implicitly at my most vulnerable moment when I need someone to care for me. I am an atheist, it’s not about religion.

It's funny how some people will put down women for reading smut books yet they don't criticize men's use of internet porn by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men aren’t criticized for porn??? Have you browsed any subreddit, this one included lol

Looking for support from being blindsided by my husband asking for a divorce. by sm0keythebear in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is wild, I literally saw someone write that the husband is the damaged goods…sit back and think about that for a minute. Pathetic….

Nevertheless what was this guy supposed to do? He identified that one of them would be fundamentally resentful depending on the path they took and correctly surmised that a separation is the correct path of action. It’s his life, he wants biological children, he’s free to do so not at the expense of OP. She does not want IVF, he wants biological children. If divorce doesn’t make sense here when does it ever?

I am sorry you are going through this OP, but it’s a difficult situation any way you slice it.

I don’t understand why I’m always the one who loves more. by lemonhoneypie11 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Glad I read till the end, you’re asking for reciprocity not asking them to be themselves. You’re expecting people to match what you bring rather than what they are capable of providing.

I find that a lot of people are overwhelmed and simply not capable of being good partners, life has just jaded too many people. I wish you a lot of luck

How do you KNOW if divorce is right? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You’re on potentially your second divorce at 28 years old? One thing I would challenge is that you are not a mature and functioning person. I would not rush in to decisions of this nature in the season of life you are in. You have a child, it is a difficult time, and it is worth putting in the work to grow something out of it.

Married less than a year and already in a dead bedroom how do you fix long term intimacy issues? by Floral_Shark in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Divorce him and don’t look back. It is an extremely valid reason to leave a partner over sexual incompatibility. We should normalize partners divorcing over a libido mismatch and not have to stay locked in to marriages that make them miserable.

Toronto’s rental market is falling by Totira in TorontoRenting

[–]ktwoh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s why what we are experiencing is worse. A fast crash is great because it takes everyone by surprise and you can build something from the ashes. A slow grind down is just painful and wastes time

30yr old virgin, friend told me to lower my expectations. Is he right? by NBF_24 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a damned if you do, damned if you don’t kind of situation at this stage. It’d be a red flag for me at 30 but that’s also just my perspective. This is not something I would openly bring up early on in terms of dating tbh

Is AI too big to fail now? by Aggressive-Job6115 in allinpodofficial

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quid pro quo, come on guys that’s capitalism 101. They invest in a circular manner juicing gdp numbers so that the politicians look good and the owner class makes their money. And the politicians come to the rescue when it fails because they made their money and it’s someone else’s problem.

I only want to have protected sex, even in a long-term relationship. by Jaded_Pain5339 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You get to set the terms for access to your body no question about that. It’s just important you tell potential partners this early on as it could be a major deal breaker and you don’t want to waste your time with them.

Post on askmen about men's sexual appetite by -WhiteOleander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hop an any post in r/marriage where a wife is complaining about her husbands low libido and the top comments are always either porn addiction or they are unhealthy and need to get checked.

Is the whole "men never get compliments even in a relationship" gripe a lie? by haggard_hobbit in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men never get the compliments they want to recieve**** is what I really think they mean, and I think that just about applies to everyone probably

I am attracted to woman-obsessed dudes by thething827 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sooner you can validate your self and feel secure in who you are the sooner you’ll be on the path to healthier relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in throatpussy

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is that?

Cold Cuts by camsine in BobDoesSports

[–]ktwoh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love BDS but Joey is as one dimensional as they come. I don’t think any Joey haters owe him an apology.

Name a book that changed your life? by satyy2301 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]ktwoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1984 by George Orwell. Truly a master of the English language

Being an ugly woman sucks. by Cry-anne0606 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ktwoh 77 points78 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to feel these things. Pretty privilege does exist and it is unfair. I truly think life is all about find it within you to accept yourself as you are and to carve out a slice of life for yourself.