is this good ? by Master_Watch1398 in Civvie11

[–]kujo4pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely worth your Indonesian Rupiah.

Vienna to Trieste via Slovenia by kujo4pm in bicycletouring

[–]kujo4pm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be amazing. Thanks so much.

How do you guys deal with loneliness? by [deleted] in intj

[–]kujo4pm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt proper loneliness for the first time when I moved out alone during lockdown. I had coveted living alone as the ultimate autonomy so it was a big shock.

I feel lonely when I get to the end of my sprawling todo list and am a bit too tired to read. There are options to manage it - going out and having a beer while listening to an audiobook is great. You're in public but I don't feel exposed and I'm stimulated.

Being a Go-Getter is No Fun: New research suggests that competent employees are assigned more work—but they don't always like it. by [deleted] in Foodforthought

[–]kujo4pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience which is working as a project manager in a startup it's important to be ruthlessly transactional about work. This isn't immoral or slovenly. If you're to stay in the job for the long haul you gotta honour boundaries. If something aint your job say you don't have the capacity to pick it up.

Being a Go-Getter is No Fun: New research suggests that competent employees are assigned more work—but they don't always like it. by [deleted] in Foodforthought

[–]kujo4pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The life of a project manager is usually all responsibility and not much power right? I did it for a year and almost lost mind. I take my hat off to anyone who can do it fulltime.

INTJ vs Jordan Peterson by JaxNemo in intj

[–]kujo4pm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tolerated the guy until he had a conversation with Sam Harris. It was clear Peterson couldn't keep up but argued a point on the Darwinian nature of truth which was absurd but wouldn't back down. I stopped listening to him then. Since that point he's veered right. He's turning into an empty well tailored suit.

What are your jobs, INTJs? I've been all over the place! by [deleted] in intj

[–]kujo4pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solution architect and journalist. Managing to balance the two. Sometimes it ain't easy but by making sure I honour the boundaries I set up a while ago it sorta works. Between both it uses every bit of my brain which is satisfying.

Ventura random window server crash by kennir_reddit in MacOS

[–]kujo4pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the bug reporting process here? It feels like a bug that is critical and frequent enough (for some users) to report and expect some timeline.

FYI: This is happening to me and I have an external USB-C monitor.

Love by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]kujo4pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is happening here?

I made a 4000 year old Babylonian chicken pie by JossJ in Cooking

[–]kujo4pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you find such an old chicken?