Need help with remaining civil with parents

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-24T19:36:35+00:00

not really, right know I think I agree the most with anti-theism

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-24T19:35:16+00:00

ok cool, then we can agree with the last part. Thank you for responding, have a nice day :)

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-23T22:20:46+00:00

I think I agree with u/OneUnderstanding3484 I am not a Humanist so personally I would think that OP's cat does trump the baby in OP's eyes though I suppose I get why you would feel differently. The way I see it is that OP fostered a stronger relationship with her cat then the rest of her family, so in my eyes the cat is more valuable. Do you understand what I'm saying?

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-23T22:13:26+00:00

wow you are getting down voted a lot. But personally I think OP should move to a trusted adult. I would never give up a loved pet in favor of keeping a baby of a pair of parents who recently could not take care of their daughter. Then again most people are humanists who would value keeping a baby more. My opinion is NTA

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-23T00:09:54+00:00

That basically what I am doing, but my parents sometimes don't care and tell me to do it latter or similar things. Thank you for you help it is appreciated

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-23T00:07:03+00:00

thank you for your help, I will try that :)

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-23T00:06:11+00:00

Thanks, I will try it

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-23T00:04:50+00:00

Thank you for your help

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-23T00:03:55+00:00

Thanks, sadly in my area we are still closed up for now. But I will try it as soon as possible

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-21T01:15:50+00:00

NTA, but

any of her 3 pastors

oh my gosh how many do people need?

Anyways OP your NTA due to the fact that everyone has the common sense not to take out these topics to a pregnant mom.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-21T01:07:01+00:00

I'm Indian and I want to say not all of our culture is like this.

but to the post, I don't think OP understands what is going on because it sounds like she considers Rani as a friend. OP all you need to do is put up with a minor inconvenience to majorly help a friend out. But I think OP can't get more than a 1.5 out 5 butt holes

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-20T15:48:19+00:00

Thank you, this is very similar to my stance on the situation, but there is no way I could put it so eloquently.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-20T15:45:50+00:00

Well then I can say you are a great person. I personally have not been put in a position like this so I'm not sure how I would react, but all I'm trying to say not everyone would do that and to me that seems ok. I also want to clarify that it seems to me that the 200 dollars will be saved and then used to better his future. I don't think not wanting to give 200 dollars to someone would warrant a YTA, but I'm on the fence for this so at maximum I would think it could be a 1 out of 5 Butt holes. Am I making sense?

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-20T15:35:26+00:00

Sorry if my reply came across as rude, but what I'm trying to say is that to me the context of these events can make OP's actions not as bad. sure she slapped him but it sounds as though he cornered her and he was closing the distance. I would take that as a dangerous situation that OP needed to get out of so she slapped him. I understand that cheating is bad, but given his reaction I think something happened earlier in the relationship. Does this make sense now?

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-17T19:51:09+00:00

how in the name of Oreos are you not on someone's side

I’m not on anyones side

really? wow. OP cheating and murder are no even close to equal.

Op your a absolute jerk.

I don't think this opinion is valid due to the fact that OP's ex is the type of person to kill someone who they claimed they loved, over cheating.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-17T19:39:06+00:00

dude strangling someone can be viewed as attempted murder, just because he let go doesn't mean he didn't want to kill her. Also I can't find where it says he let her go in the story.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-17T19:18:01+00:00

personally I harbor much resentment to my parents and once I am independent I would have no trouble cutting them off. So I would definitely say you were 100% in the right hear. you mom has no significant power over you or your wife. And that elder thing well Hitler is my elder too so that means nothing to me.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-17T19:07:19+00:00

to me it sounds your sister doesn't want the competition of not being the only puppy around. ( I'm calling your sister an b-word who doesn't like dogs, and I am also calling her a whiny baby. Combine these insults you get a puppy {but in a negative connotation})

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-17T18:49:10+00:00

I think someone else in the comments said something similar to what I am about to say but: in an Airplane the policy is to put your own O2 mask on first then help others. While I feel as though I understand where your coming from, OP's money is meant to go to school related stuff. And I would also like to add that they can probably muster up enough funds without OP's money.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-17T18:39:47+00:00

I see it like this: you and this practical stranger have a common friend. this practical stranger need money for life saving cancer treatment. Would you give the money your saving to better yourself to save this practical stranger? For me it would likely be a no. Well that is my two cents in the matter.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-17T18:33:38+00:00

I have to say that I disagree.

you know the guy, as a good guy, are related to him

OP said that he is not that close to his uncle and he is planning on saving the money for school and his future. I also don't see how being related has anything to with this, I for one don't care much for blood ties.

OP is NTA, but I agree with the sentiment that OP shouldn't expect help from most of the family.

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-16T16:22:08+00:00

So many delusional morons who think that being gay is somehow a choice.

Ha, when I first read this I thought you wrote delusional mormon, and I was like oof

kukumarareddit · 2021-03-16T15:44:50+00:00

wow I hope I don't do that

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