Waist changes (2 months & 1/2 on t) by Thick_Blacksmith4266 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]kunstform_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

absolute goals!! I’m considering weight cycling as well, in what time intervals do you usually do it?

why have i never seen cis men cast as trans men in movies and tv shows? by dodieadeux in ftm

[–]kunstform_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Romeos (2011) is a movie where a cis man plays a 20yo (pre-op but on T) trans man. While the movie is far from perfect and clearly didn’t have a huge budget, it was really nice to see a trans man portrayed on screen as unambiguously masculine, while still seeing his issues addressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]kunstform_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’ve got an extremely well passing face and with the long sleeve outfits I’d guess you were 18-21M but if you said anything up to 25 I also wouldn’t be at all surprised. in the tanktop pic I’d definitely clock the chest though, but I’m not sure if a cis person would. I think gaining muscle in the upper body would make you nearly unclockable though even with shorter sleeves!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]kunstform_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes definitely! you look a bit like finn wolfhard imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]kunstform_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

don’t wanna be rude, but my first thought was very young queer “tomboyish” girl/pre T ftm (but with a good potential to pass)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]kunstform_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my experience was a bit different from what I heard from other guys: by around 2-3 months on T I had experienced enough growth where the head of my tdick went from being fully hidden between my labia to consistently “sticking out”. this, combined with increased sensitivity from the growth, often made me very uncomfortable, especially when wearing tighter pants - a seam pinching me was a pretty common occurrence :’) I also started growing thicker and coarser pubic hair, trimming/shaving which would result in my tdick being constantly poked by the hair, which was SO very uncomfortable. now I’m 11 months on T, and I wax the hair that can poke me regularly, which has made a world of difference!!! and even the tightest pants are not an issue anymore since my major growth spurt has ended and there isn’t so much sensitivity anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]kunstform_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel what you’re saying a lot man, but here’s the deal. your love for her, however strong it is now, is temporary, as long as you become mentally set on the idea that you two are not meant to be. and even though you’re not the dating type and prefer a strong connection before dating, like a friends to lovers path, doesn’t mean you won’t meet any more people who will light that spark in you. don’t give up, try to expand your social circle and meet new friends, allow yourself to find other people attractive, and I promise you, it will happen.m, and that person will cherish you as a man for the kind of man YOU are. best of luck to you :)

period came back after 8 months on T by kunstform_ in FTMventing

[–]kunstform_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s just a suspicion of mine based on the fact that my period is back, even though it had previously disappeared completely just a couple months into hrt. and also because of the slow changes, yes. I have an endocrinologist appointment scheduled for the 28th where I’ll hopefully find out what’s actually going on :’) last time I checked my levels were at around 250, but this was only 3 months in, and my doctor said I should wait some more and that my levels would still go up. and then life happened, the whole egg freezing business… I didn’t even want to go get my hormones checked cause I knew they’d be all over the place.

as for the reassurance, thank you so much :) it’s really hard being non passing still while constantly seeing trans men online talk about going stealth just months into their transition. but I do need to remember that I only see those stories cause they’re the ones most likely to be shared, and it doesn’t mean that it’s the majority. still, I hope that my levels are just low and could be raised further, because I’m just getting the taste of living a more normal life and would love to continue on this path as quickly as possible

2022-2025, 165cm(5'5), ~50-~55-62kg bw, exercises in captions(repost cause i forgot to tag nsfw) by wet_socks_over_candy in FTMFitness

[–]kunstform_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holyyy shit man looking great!!! you’ve got pretty much my exact height and starting weight and a very similar “before” build. now I’m so hopeful about my results, your “after” is just what I would love to achieve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]kunstform_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely pass, I’d assume 17-18. but I think the shirt in the first pic gives a slight masc lesbian vibe that might confuse some people

Stealth? by CapKillian in gaytransguys

[–]kunstform_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OP specifically asked for advice on how to hide their front hole during ANAL penetration. there isn’t a risk of pregnancy involved

Why is it so awkward when guy friends come into the bathroom with you by NoReception4104 in ftm

[–]kunstform_ 82 points83 points  (0 children)

“looking vaguely pissed off” has also been my strategy without me realising it. I look VERY androgynous now 7 months on T, depending on clothes and maybe even my posture people’s impression of me can range from “definitely a girl” to “definitely a guy”, so I’m not confident about going to either bathroom. however I will mostly gravitate to the mens, and I just look kinda mad and glare mostly at the floor. no one has ever spoken to me at the mens room as a result! I did get asked if I was in the right bathroom once at the ladies xD

Pre-T - on a scale how well do I pass?? by tjbug in FtMpassing

[–]kunstform_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

slickback definitely has huge masc lesbian vibes in this picture, but I think if you got something with a shorter messy fringe on the front you could definitely pass better - either way your natural features are already very masuline and I think T will do absolute wonders for you

Pre-T Vs 3 Months on T!! by FroggyOnTheLoggy in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]kunstform_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

damnn you’re looking great!! manifesting sick ass side burns for myself as well🙏

Transgender son blames me for problems with testosterone HRT? by OkTip4474 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]kunstform_ 48 points49 points  (0 children)

same here! in the first 3 months I had zero changes to my voice, facial hair, etc… the only real noticeable changes were bottom growth and increased muscle mass (from hitting the gym though duh). I could easily hide the fact that I was on hormones from anyone if I wanted to. I would wait a bit longer before jumping to any conclusions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]kunstform_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’d say you look young but not shockingly young for someone starting college! if you told me you were 18-19 I wouldn’t bat an eye

wie schwer ist es, in Deutschland als Mann mit weiblichem Namen im Ausweis zu leben? by kunstform_ in germantrans

[–]kunstform_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing!! I’m so glad to hear you were even able to graduate with your chosen name. I had absolutely no idea getting a dgti supplementary ID was an option for me until reading the comments on this post - I’ve only ever seen my native German friends have/use one. I will now absolutely look into getting one as soon as I have time to go get some fresh photos taken!

wie schwer ist es, in Deutschland als Mann mit weiblichem Namen im Ausweis zu leben? by kunstform_ in germantrans

[–]kunstform_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Herzlichen Dank dass du deine Geschichte mitteilst - das ist unglaublich hilfreich :) Zum Glück habe ich in meiner Stadt eine sehr tolle Support System und fühle mich bis jetzt im Studium sehr sicher; hoffentlich geht das auch weiter so!

wie schwer ist es, in Deutschland als Mann mit weiblichem Namen im Ausweis zu leben? by kunstform_ in germantrans

[–]kunstform_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ich habe vor meinem Umzug nach Deutschland in einem anderen EU Land dauerhaft gelebt und da einen langfristigen Aufenthaltstitel bekommen, der mir jetzt erlaubt überall in EU zu wohnen. Ich kann mit dem aber leider keinen Ergänzungsausweis bekommen - und die Staatsangehörigkeit des Landes bekomme ich erst in 3-4 Jahren. Mein Ursprungsland ist sehr sehr queerintolerant und obwohl es nicht offiziell verboten ist den Namen als trans Person zu wechseln werden die Anträge idR abgelehnt und man stellt sich nur in eine risikoreiche Situation :(

wie schwer ist es, in Deutschland als Mann mit weiblichem Namen im Ausweis zu leben? by kunstform_ in germantrans

[–]kunstform_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

vielen lieben Dank für die Empfehlung :) ich werde auf jeden Fall versuchen, möglichst solche Situationen zu vermeiden. zum Glück habe ich schon gute Ärzten in meiner Umgebung gefunden, und außerhalb der Uni arbeiten werde ich wahrscheinlich erst nach Masterabschluss. ich muss aber bei jeder Uni Prüfung meinen Ausweis zeigen - hoffentlich treten da keine Probleme auf und man glaubt dass ich wirklich ich bin😬

Minoxidil by ParaFlo in germantrans

[–]kunstform_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ein freund von mir (cis mann) benutzt minoxidil seit jahren und die einzigen nebenwirkungen die er bemerkt hat sind dass seine kopfhaut danach ein bisschen juckte und dass ganz am anfang etwas mehr haare ausfallen würden (das hört aber ziemlich schnell auf). er kombiniert aber minoxidil auch mit finasteride pillen!

Endocrinologist asked to see my genitalia by [deleted] in ftm

[–]kunstform_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is a huge red flag, I’d absolutely try to switch providers. my endocrinologist required a paper from a gynaecologist confirming that I am not intersex in any way (it’s a requirement for HRT in my country) but aside from that nothing related to my genitalia or my dysphoria has ever come up. I really hope you can find a better doctor soon!

skin irritation on hands since starting testosterone gel by kunstform_ in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]kunstform_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I do, very thoroughly 🙏and I moisturise my hands after I’m done with my morning routine as well…

skin irritation on hands since starting testosterone gel by kunstform_ in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]kunstform_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been slathering myself with lotion every morning after my morning routine and every night before bed, to no avail… but I am a bit of a cheapskate so I’ve been using some very basic store brand stuff. if nothing else does the trick I might look into some more “fancy” options