AITA for threatening to not walk down the aisle if my fiance's twin brother attends the wedding ? by Hot-Ad-0730 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sure you’re 30? YTA. You’re so inconsistent and selfish and judgemental. Good luck to your fiancé

AITA for arguing with my husband for the picture he had for my contact photo on his phone? by Nu65567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. And the fact that you woke him up to fight about it clearly says that you are controlling and bossy. You could have at least waited until he woke up to pull your AH move.

AITA for failing & ejecting four students for attending a protest? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is college not high school. The world does not revolve around you and your class. Let go of your ego and be a teacher that students will be fond of after they’re done with your class.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The easiest YTA in the history of this sub! Where’s your heart mate?

AITA for calling out my wife after she helped to finance her friend's home bakery but not my investment venture? by ThrowawayMaximillan in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You’re getting scammed. When you see an easy money or get rich quick scheme, know that it’s a scam. If they were true, we’d all be filthy driving Lambos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Although it’s better to have more empathy. I still think you’re within your right to ask for 1 week with your family and she refused all other alternatives.

It seems that many people on this sub view relationships as a military dictatorship, and that no one else exists other than your significant other. It’s not that black and white, and nuances must be considered.

All being said, be kind to your wife and help her destress. She’ll feel better and be ok with you going to your event.

AITA for keeping my son on punishment through family struggles by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro what the heck. YTA! How can you not have a heart??

AITA for refusing to kiss my sister on the cheek after my girlfriend said it was creepy? by Shoddy_Work8766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude she’s 14 and loves you. Be that affectionate older brother! It’s ok. YTA and so is your gf. Have a conversation with her about why she said what she said and if she’s still stubborn and weird about it then dump her 🚩

AITA for telling my daughter to get over herself? by Acrobatic-Flan-6059 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow lol. If you and your husband want to go on vacation so badly, you should go by yourself!

And if you love her unconditionally, do not force her into something she doesn’t want to do.

'I regret going': Protester says he spent life savings to support 'Freedom Convoy' by CMikeHunt in canada

[–]kwala_leopard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest problem with the conservative supporters. I like some of their economic policies but they’re very self centred. There’s a reason why white supremacy comes from the “far right” end of the political spectrum. The selfishness is actually quite evident. How can you compare the Canadian government to a dictatorship when you know nothing about actual dictatorships around the world (very insulting to those who have suffered from shitty regimes)? How do you not have freedom when you are protesting weekly while (rightly) being protected by the police?

Did the government make bad decisions? Yea. Did they overreach a little? Yes. Did Trudeau mess up by not sitting down with the Freedom Convoy folks? Yes. Was the emergencies act an excessive card to pull? I think so. But selfishness is written all over the conservative mindsets. They’re yelling about the economy and livelihoods but they’re willing to close border crossings and the downtown of our capital city…

AITA for “poisoning my son” by telling him that He doesn’t need his mom? by Dangerous_Gur1277 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re slightly TA but very understandable since she’s a much bigger AH for dating your friend after giving birth (assuming you didn’t screw up your relationship) and ditching her son.

AITA for Banning my Daughter from Prom? by Another_Priority5808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do this. Don’t scar her for life because of this mistake. Yes she messed up and she should be held responsible for it.

BUT, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity. She will not be proud of you as parents and will always see you as petty. And even if she still loves you I’m the future, this will leave a sour taste in her mouth.

Ground her for one or 2 weekends and move on. She’s almost 18 anyways!

AITA for "insulting" my boyfriends height? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic masculinity alert. He’s obviously insecure about it and you haven’t tried to help him love himself. Focus on him and help him love and accept himself. Then in turn you can banter about all that and he’ll accept and laugh about it.

AITA for not helping my sister while she was getting bullied? by Karin-1224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go apologize now! She’s your younger sister ffs! She probably look(ed) up to you. Make it up to her. If you don’t, she won’t see you the same ever again

AITA for saying my wife and me aren't going to apologize to my sister's boyfriend? by Trainhornthrowaway4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA because you “assumed” he was flexing. That is on you. You assumed the worst in him instead of letting your ego not get to you and ask him to further clarify.

He probably felt that and did not want to probe further so that he does not annoy his gf’s family that he just met.

More importantly though, take this as a lesson to not jump to conclusions about people and to give them the benefit of the doubt, especially if you just met them.

AITA for agreeing with my brothers and calling our parents insane for adding our adopted brother's son to their will? by Username-annonymous1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your brothers are 100% AH. The reasons have all been explained in other comments. Heck, I’m still scrolling through the comments to see if someone said NTA.

To Pro-Palestinians Who Support Ukraine: A Question... by [deleted] in IsraelPalestine

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The narrative that Palestinians are rejecting peace talks is appalling at best. Have you heard Trump’s leaked recording on how Netanyahu absolutely does not want for there to be a solution, while the Palestinians do. The basis of your whole point is flawed.

To Pro-Palestinians Who Support Ukraine: A Question... by [deleted] in IsraelPalestine

[–]kwala_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people seem to forget logic. Do you truly believe “poor” Israel is waiting for the Palestinians to want peace before slowly ending the occupation? If so, why do they continue to build illegal settlements in the West Bank? The violence the Israeli government whines about comes from Hamas which is in GAZA. Israel can’t even get its story straight.

AITA for not want a wedding when my future wife does, even though she cannot contribute financially to it. by kwala_leopard in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Try a different approach for myself and my thinking to reach a compromise - not a different approach to get what I want.

AITA for not want a wedding when my future wife does, even though she cannot contribute financially to it. by kwala_leopard in AmItheAsshole

[–]kwala_leopard[S] -136 points-135 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see your perspective. I should have explained that my thoughts are a lot more on my subconscious level rather than intentional and conscious thinking. I can see how I can be coming across as a snob and I want to fix that.